ʻOkakopa 2019 - Kākoʻo i nā mea pakele e noho

ʻO nā moʻolelo moʻolelo nui ʻole o kēia pule ma luna o nā mea ola i loko o ka home i koho e noho i ko lākou pilina. ʻO ka ʻāpana ma lalo, i kākau ʻia e Hōʻike maikaʻi, hoʻopuka mua ʻia e ka I kēia lā Hōʻike ma 2014. ʻO Gooden ka mea nāna i hana ka #kahiko ʻO ka neʻe, i hoʻomaka ma hope o ka nīnau "no ke aha ʻo ia e haʻalele ʻole ai" ua nīnau pinepine ʻia iā Janay Rice, ma hope o kahi wikiō i hōʻike ʻia e kāna kāne, ʻo Ray Rice (ma mua o ka Baltimore Ravens), hōʻeha kino iā Janay.

E Bev,

Hana hou ʻo ia.

E kala mai iaʻu no ka uhaʻi o kāna hoʻohiki ʻana iā ʻoe. Manaʻoʻiʻo ʻoe ʻo ka manawa hope loa ka manawa hope loa, a no ke aha ʻoe i makemake ʻole ai? Makemake ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i ke aloha o ko lākou ola. ʻAe, pololei kēlā. ʻIke wau aloha aloha ʻoe iā ia ʻoiai ma hope o kona ʻoki ʻana iā ʻoe. Ua maikaʻi, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo. Aloha ʻoe i kēia kāne.

ʻIke ʻoe nalowale me ka ʻole ʻoiai makaʻu ʻoe me ia. He ʻano ʻē ia ʻeā? Aloha nui i ke kāne a makaʻu iā ia, e like me ka hohonu. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kēlā mau manaʻo. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i nā mea āpau āu e manaʻo nei. ʻAʻole ʻoe ʻaiʻē i kekahi i ke aloha no kou mau manaʻo.

Maopopo iaʻu ke aha ʻoe e noho ai. Ke ala e hoʻopaʻa ai iā ʻoe ma hope o kahi hakakā? Maikaʻi loa ka manaʻo. ʻO ka hoʻopā maikaʻi ʻole e ukali ʻia e kahi hoʻopā maikaʻi ... hoʻomehana ia iā ʻoe. Hoʻonui ia i nā mea āpau. ʻĀ, nā mea āpau koe nā ʻeha.

A mālama ʻo ia iā ʻoe! ʻAʻohe kāne i mālama maikaʻi loa iā ʻoe. Pale ʻo ia a hoʻolako. Hoʻohanohano ʻo ia iā ʻoe i ka lehulehu. Kupaianaha loa kāna minoʻaka. Manaʻo ʻoe he laki no ka pae ʻana i ka hopu. Nui nā kaikamahine i makemake iā ia, a mahalo nui nā mea a pau ma ka hale pule nona. Akā ua koho ʻo ia e lilo i kona ola me ʻoe. No laila hōʻole ʻoe e hoʻokuʻu iā ia i lalo.

Ke nānā ʻo ia i kāna nānā āpau iā ʻoe, hauʻoli ia. ʻO ʻoe ke kikowaena o kāna ao! Maliʻa paha ka liʻiliʻi loa. Kuhi ʻia kēlā me kēia neʻe āu e hana ai. Makemake wale ʻo ia iā ʻoe e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, ʻeā? ʻLelo ʻo ia iā ʻoe ʻo ʻoe wale nō ka mea hiki ke hoʻopuka i kēlā ʻaoʻao ona no ka mea nui aloha iā ʻoe. ʻIke, hele ʻoe ma lalo o kona ʻili no ka mea ʻo ia ka mea āna e mālama ai. ʻAʻole anei kēlā kupaianaha? E mālama nui ʻia? ʻO wai ka wahine e makemake ʻole e lilo i ke ao holoʻokoʻa a ke kāne? ʻO ia wale nō ʻaʻole kūpono. Loaʻa kāna luna ma lalo o kona ʻili, akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i kuʻi iā ia. Makemake ʻo ia e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kona mau kaikuahine, akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e nahu a paipai iā lākou. ʻAʻole hoʻohui ʻia nā mea, ʻeā? E Bev, ʻaʻole loa iā ʻoe. ʻAʻohe mea hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo; ʻaʻohe ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke ʻano i kūpono nona. ʻAʻole iā ʻoe ia, nāna nō ia. He hewa ʻo ia.

Akā i kēia manawa ke noʻonoʻo nei ʻoe i kēlā mau manawa o ka mahina huhū ʻo ia a kū iā ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki ke ʻoi aku ma mua o 27-28 mau lā kiʻi ʻē aʻe āu e noho pū ai i ka hana ʻana. Akau?

Akau?

A i ʻole, hiki ke hōʻaiʻē maʻalahi i nā lā 27-28 ʻē aʻe? He kekona wale nō ka lōʻihi e hoʻopau i kahi ola. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻopau i kou ola. ʻO ko mākou ola.

Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka i ka hoʻolālā i kahi mahuka i kēia manawa, inā makemake ʻoe. Lōʻihi paha kēia manawa, akā hiki iā ʻoe ke hana. E paʻakikī a makemake ʻoe e hāʻawi. Aia nā kumuwaiwai i laila e kōkua iā ʻoe. Akā e akahele i ka wehe ʻana i kēlā mau loulou, ʻoiai inā ʻo ia i loko o ka hale.

Nou no ke koho, Bev. Akā ke mākaukau wale ʻoe, ʻaʻole ka manawa koke. ʻAʻohe hewa, kaomi, a hilahila ʻole. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo ʻaʻole e ʻeha kēia hana. E kaumaha ʻoe no kekahi manawa lōʻihi. E haʻo ʻoe iā ia a me ke ola āu i hui pū ai. E makaʻu ʻoe i kou ola. E noʻonoʻo ʻoe inā ua hoʻoholo pololei ʻoe i ka haʻalele ʻana. Manaʻo i kēlā; nona kēlā ʻeha. ʻO ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ka ʻeha kahi hana e pono ai ma mua o kaʻu e haʻi hou aku ai iā ʻoe.

Ke emi ke ʻeha, ʻike ʻoe i ke kūʻokoʻa. E Bev, e maluhia kēlā! Hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i kēlā? E like ia me he lani lā. E kūkulu ʻoe i kahi ʻoihana hou. E ʻike hou ʻoe i ke aloha. E ʻike ʻoe i nā pilina olakino. E hana ʻoe i mau hoaaloha hou a pili hou me nā mea kahiko. E loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi hui pūʻulu a hui pū me nā wahine ʻē aʻe e like me ʻoe. E kūʻai ʻoe i kaʻa. He ʻai kāu e ʻai ai. He kope ʻoe e inu ai! E ola ʻoe. E ulu pono ʻoe. E hanu ʻoe. E ola ʻoe. E ola mākou. E loaʻa iā ʻoe ka honua ma kou manamana lima.

Ke mākaukau ʻoe, e mākaukau hoʻi ka honua.

E kali ana wau iā ʻoe.

Aloha,
Bev