Kwenguva yakareba munharaunda medu, Emerge Center Against Domestic Abuse yakavapo kugadzira, kuchengetedza nekupemberera hupenyu husina kushungurudzwa.

Kubva 1975, isu tanga tichipa pekugara uye kupindira masevhisi, kuyedza kunzwa uye kubatsira avo vane hupenyu hwaive hwakaparadzwa nekuvhiringidzwa nemhirizhonga nekushungurudzwa.

Asi munzira, takaona kuti kudzamara tatanga kugadzirisa izvo zvinokonzeresa mhirizhonga munharaunda medu, isu tiri kungoisa bhanhire padambudziko iri. Kunyangwe kuve nerubatsiro rwuripo rwakakosha kune vanhu uye mhuri dziri kusangana nekushungurudzwa, tinoziva kuti kupindura kushungurudzwa hakuzomise mune ramangwana.

Nharaunda dzedu dzakazara nemhirizhonga, yave mhinduro yakajairika yakadzika mukufungidzira, kutenda, uye kukosha izvo zvinotsanangura simba uye chinzvimbo nekugona kutonga nekutonga.

Izvi zvine hukama hwakabatana nenzira idzo simba rinotsanangurwa mukati mehukama. 

Kazhinji hunhu hunoshandiswa nevanhu zvine hukama nesimba, hutongi uye kutonga zvinotsigirwa nekusaziva nenharaunda yedu uye kuita shanduko yesystem uye kunyatso kuwana pfungwa yeku "kumisa kushungurudzwa mudzimba" isu mumwe nemumwe tinofanirwa kuongorora nzira dzatinoshandisa simba neropafadzo hwedu pachedu.

Mumwe nemumwe wedu ane nharaunda dzekutanga dzatinoshanda madziri uye dzinosimbisa zvitendero nemitemo yatinobata seyakasimbisa uye zvinosimbisa maitiro edu.

Isu takadzidziswawo maererano nekutevedzera kuita kwakadzama mabasa evanhurume anopa runyoro rwebhuruu kune iyo yakajeka mirawu yemabatiro aungaita nekubata avo vanoonekwa sevanokudza nevakaderera nekuda kwekuzivikanwa kwevakadzi, rudzi, hunhu hwepabonde kana chimwewo chinyorwa.

Sevanhu vatinogamuchira kana kusaziva kuti kutonga uye hukasha kuratidzwa kwesimba neropafadzo. Zvakakosha kucherechedza kuti maitiro mazhinji anoshandiswa nevanhu haasi "asiri pamutemo" kana haakodzere kutsanangurwa zviri pamutemo kwekushungurudzwa / mhirizhonga, asi ari kudzora kana kushungurudza nedudziro nechinangwa chekusimbisa simba uye mukana.

Izvi zvinogona zvakare kusanganisira kuramba wakanyarara mukutarisana nehunhu hwevamwe uye inzira yekutendera nekusimbisa.

Yasvika nguva yekuti nharaunda yedu iungane pamwe nekuita kumisa kushungurudzwa nemhirizhonga yemarudzi ese.

Mhirizhonga inozopera patinoda kuti ipere, senharaunda. Mhirizhonga inozopera patinotanga kutaurirana isu nezvatakasangana nazvo, patinotanga kuteerera kune mumwe nemumwe nezve zvatinoda. MuTucson, mhirizhonga inozopera patinotanga kubatana nedziva remarwadzo iro isu tese tinaro nekuda kwemhirizhonga yemunharaunda medu. Tinogona kuzviita kana takagadzirira.

Pane kufona kwakabuda kunogadzirisa mhirizhonga, kuipedza, uye kugadzira nharaunda ine rudo, rukudzo uye kuchengetedzwa kwakakosha uye kodzero dzisingabatike kune wese munhu muguta rino.

Mubvunzo hausi iwo watinofanira kuita asi, asi, isu takagadzirira kuita chimwe chinhu?