Uthando Sisenzo—Isenzi

Ibhalwe ngu: Anna Harper-Guerrero

Usekela Mongameli we-Emerge kunye neGosa leQhinga eliyiNtloko

bell hook zathi, “Kodwa uthando ngenene luyinkqubo yokunxibelelana. Imalunga noko sikwenzayo, hayi nje indlela esiziva ngayo. Sisenzi, hayi isibizo.”

Njengoko iNyanga yoKwazisa ngoBundlobongela baseKhaya iqala, ndibonakalisa umbulelo ngothando esithe sakwazi ukulusebenzisa kwabo basinde kubundlobongela basekhaya kunye noluntu lwethu ngexesha lobhubhani. Eli xesha linzima liye laba ngumfundisi wam omkhulu malunga nezenzo zothando. Ndabona uthando lwethu kuluntu lwethu ngokuzibophezela kwethu ekuqinisekiseni ukuba iinkonzo kunye nenkxaso zihlala zikhona kubantu kunye neentsapho ezijongene nobundlobongela basekhaya.

Akusiyo imfihlo ukuba i-Emerge yenziwe ngamalungu alo luntu, abaninzi babo baye bafumana amava abo ngobuhlungu kunye nokukhathazeka, ababonisa yonke imihla kwaye banikele iintliziyo zabo kubasindileyo. Oku kuyinyani ngokungathandabuzekiyo kwiqela labasebenzi abanikezela ngeenkonzo kuwo wonke umbutho-indawo yokuhlala kaxakeka, i-hotline, iinkonzo zeentsapho, iinkonzo ezisekelwe kuluntu, iinkonzo zezindlu, kunye nenkqubo yethu yemfundo yamadoda. Kukwayinyani kuye wonke umntu oxhasa umsebenzi wenkonzo ngqo kwabasindileyo ngeenkonzo zethu zokusingqongileyo, uphuhliso, kunye namaqela olawulo. Kuyinyani ngakumbi kwiindlela sonke esasihlala kuzo, sijongana nazo, kwaye senze konke okusemandleni ethu ukunceda abathathi-nxaxheba kulo bhubhani.

Qhubeka ufunda inqaku elipheleleyo

Kule veki, i-Emerge ibonisa amabali amagqwetha ethu asemthethweni. Inkqubo yezomthetho ye-Emerge ibonelela ngenkxaso kubathathi-nxaxheba ababandakanyeka kwiinkqubo zobulungisa boluntu kunye nezolwaphulo-mthetho ePima County ngenxa yeziganeko ezinxulumene nokuxhatshazwa kwasekhaya. Enye yezona mpembelelo zinkulu zempatho-gadalala nobundlobongela sisiphumo sokubandakanyeka kwiinkqubo ezahlukeneyo zenkundla kunye neenkqubo. La mava anokuziva esoyisa kwaye ebhideka ngelixa amaxhoba ekwazama ukufumana ukhuseleko emva kokuxhatshazwa. Qhubeka Reading

Kule veki, i-Emerge ihlonipha bonke abasebenzi abasebenza nabantwana kunye neentsapho e-Emerge. Abantwana abeza kwinkqubo yethu ye-Emergency Shelter babejongene nokulawula inguqu yokushiya amakhaya abo apho kwakusenzeka ubundlobongela kwaye bafudukela kwindawo yokuhlala engaqhelekanga kunye nemozulu yoloyiko ethe yagquba ngeli xesha lo bhubhani. Olu tshintsho lukhawulezileyo kubomi babo lwenziwa ukuba lube ngumceli mngeni ngakumbi kukwahlulwa ngokwasemzimbeni kokungasebenzisani nabanye ngokobuqu kwaye ngokungathandabuzekiyo lwalubhideka kwaye loyikisa. Qhubekeka ukufunda

Kule veki, i-Emerge ibonisa amabali abasebenzi abasebenza kwiShelter yethu, iZindlu, kunye neenkqubo zeMfundo yaMadoda. Ngexesha lo bhubhani, abantu abafumana ukuphathwa gadalala ezandleni zeqabane labo elisondeleyo bahlala bezabalaza ukufumana uncedo, ngenxa yokwanda kokwahluka. Ngelixa umhlaba wonke kwafuneka utshixe iingcango zabo, abanye baye bavalelwa kunye neqabane elixhaphazayo. Qhubeka Reading

Kwividiyo yale veki, abasebenzi bezolawulo be-Emerge baqaqambisa ubunzima bokubonelela ngenkxaso yolawulo ngexesha lobhubhane. Ukusuka kwimigaqo-nkqubo eguqukayo ngokukhawuleza ukunciphisa umngcipheko, ukuphinda uhlengahlengise iifowuni zokuqinisekisa ukuba uMnxeba wethu wokuQala unokuphendulwa ekhaya; ukusuka ekuveliseni iminikelo yezinto zokucoca kunye nephepha lendlu yangasese, ukutyelela amashishini amaninzi ukufumana kunye… Qhubeka Reading 

 

Uthotho lwamabali aNgachazwanga 2020

Masiphilise uluntu lwethu

Njengoko sithatha ixesha lokucingisisa ngomsebenzi wethu kule nyanga yeDwarha, iNyanga yoKwazisa ngoBundlobongela baseKhaya, kulo nyaka kuvakala ngenye indlela. Akohlukanga kuba uxhatshazo lwasekhaya lubi kakhulu xa uvalelwe neqabane lakho elikuphethe kakubi. Akwahlukanga ngenxa yokutshintshwa kweenkonzo ezikude ukuba imibutho emininzi yenkonzo yoluntu kuye kwafuneka yenze kulo nyaka uphelileyo. Kodwa yahlukile kuba uluntu lwethu luqala ukucinga ngendlela esinokulwakha ngayo utshintsho olunentsingiselo. Ngokwahlukileyo, kuba thina njengoluntu siyayiqonda into yokuba iinkqubo zoluntu lwethu azikhange zijongane nokhuseleko lomntu wonke kwindawo yethu. Ukwahluka, kuba asisazimisele ukuhlala sithule malunga nokungabikho kobulungisa esikubona kwezi nkqubo imihla ngemihla, okwenziwa kwabo sibathandayo - ngakumbi abafazi bebala.

Ezi nkqubo zamaziko, njengemfundo, ukhathalelo lwempilo, ubulungisa bolwaphulo-mthetho kunye nokunyanzeliswa komthetho, iinkonzo zoluntu, ziye zatyhalela abantu abaninzi kwimida engabonakaliyo yoluntu lwethu. Isimemezo sethu esihlangeneyo sotshintsho kunye noxanduva lwenkqubo lunzima kuthi - kufuneka simamele kwaye sihoye ikhwelo kunye nemfuno yotshintsho.

Ukuphuma akakhutshiwe kolu xanduva. Kufuneka siyamkele indima yethu njengeziko kuluntu lwethu kunye nendlela esisebenze ngayo ngeendlela ezingavumiyo ukuba ukonakaliswa kweenkqubo zethu kushiye abantu abaninzi abasindileyo kwindawo yethu ukuba bafumane indlela yabo. Enyanisweni, kwiveki yesine ka-Okthobha, uya kufunda ngakumbi malunga nomsebenzi wobulungisa bentlalontle esiye sazibandakanya kuwo kule minyaka mithandathu idlulileyo, ukuqinisekisa ngcono unyango olulinganayo kunye nokubonakala kwabo bonke abasindileyo.

Kwezi veki zine zizayo, siyakumema ukuba usithelele kumsebenzi wethu wokuhlala kwiinyaniso ezinzima esingazange siwavume amava apheleleyo abantu abaninzi kangaka abasindileyo. Sonke singasebenzisa eli thuba ukucinga nzulu ngendawo esikuyo umntu ngamnye kuluntu lwethu. I-Emerge ibambisene nemibutho eliqela ukuzisa amazwi angaviwayo kwiphulo lethu lezemfundo kule nyanga kaOkthobha. La mazwi asenokukucela umngeni, kwaye usenokuziva usabela. Siyakumema ukuba ujonge indlela osabela ngayo kwaye ucamngce ngayo.

Siyakumema ukuba usincede silisebenzise eli thuba hayi njengendlela yokuhlukanisa kodwa endaweni yoko sizibone ezi ngxoxo njengendlela yokutshintsha, kwaye ekugqibeleni iphile njengoluntu.

Ipapashwe nge-15 ka-Okthobha, ngo-2020

Ubundlobongela obubhekiselwe kwabasetyhini bomthonyama benziwe ngokwesiqhelo kangangokuba sihleli kwinyani engathethwayo, efihlakeleyo yokuba eyethu imizimba ayiyoyethu. Ukuqala kwam ukukhumbula le nyaniso mhlawumbi malunga neminyaka emi-3 okanye emi-4 ubudala, ndaya kwiNkqubo ye-HeadStart kwilali ebizwa ngokuba yiPisinemo. Ndikhumbula ndixelelwa “ungavumeli mntu akuthabathe” njengesilumkiso kootishala bam xa bendikuhambo lwasendle. Ndikhumbula ndisoyika ukuba enyanisweni kukho umntu oza kuzama “ukundithabatha” kodwa andizange ndiyiqonde ukuba ithetha ukuthini na loo nto. Ndandisazi ukuba kufuneka ndibonakale kumgama ovela kutitshala wam nokuba mna, njengomntwana oneminyaka emi-3 okanye emi-4 ubudala emva koko ndaye ndazi ngesiquphe kakhulu indawo endingqongileyo. Ndiyaqonda ngoku ukuba ndimdala, lo monzakalo wadluliselwa kum, kwaye ndawudlulisela kubantwana bam. Intombi yam endala kunye nonyana wam bobabini bayakhumbula ngokuyalelwa ndim “ungavumeli mntu akuthabathe” njengokuba bebehamba ndaweni ithile ndingekho mna. Cofa apha ukuze ufunde inqaku elipheleleyo

Ipapashwe nge-23 ka-Okthobha, ngo-2020

I-Emerge ibikwinkqubo yendaleko kunye nenguquko kwiminyaka emi-6 edlulileyo egxile kakhulu ekubeni ngumbutho ochasene nobuhlanga, umbutho weenkcubeko ezininzi. Sisebenza yonke imihla ukuncothula intsusa echasene nobumnyama kwaye sijongane nobuhlanga ngeenzame zokubuyela kubuntu obuhlala nzulu kuthi sonke. 

Sifuna ukuba yimbonakaliso yenkululeko, uthando, uvelwano kunye nokuphilisa - izinto ezifanayo esizifuna kuye nabani na obandezelekileyo kwindawo yethu.  

I-Emerge ikuhambo lokuthetha iinyaniso ezingachazwanga malunga nomsebenzi wethu kwaye ngokuthobekileyo ubonise iziqwenga ezibhaliweyo kunye neevidiyo ezivela kumahlakani oluntu kule nyanga. Ezi ziinyaniso ezibalulekileyo malunga namava okwenyani athi amaxhoba anawo ezama ukufikelela kuncedo. Sikholelwa ukuba kuloo nyaniso kukukhanya kwendlela eya phambili. Cofa apha ukuze ufunde inqaku elipheleleyo

Inkcubeko yodlwengulo kunye nokuphathwa gadalala emaKhaya

Ipapashwe nge-9 ka-Okthobha, ngo-2020

Nangona bekukho ubushushu obuninzi kwiingxoxo zoluntu malunga nezikhumbuzo zexesha lemfazwe yamakhaya, imbongi yaseNashville uCaroline Williams kutshanje uye wasikhumbuza ngendima edla ngokungasiwa so kulo mba: udlwengulo, nenkcubeko yodlwengulo. Kwi-OpEd enesihloko esithi, “Uyafuna iSikhumbuzo soMdibaniso? Umzimba wam lilitye lesikhumbuzo leNdibaniselwano, ”ubonakalisa imbali emva komthunzi wesikhumba sakhe esimdaka ngebala. "Ngokubhekiselele kwimbali yosapho, kwaye njengoko uvavanyo lweDNA lwanamhlanje luye lwandivumela ukuba ndiqinisekise, ndiyinzala yabasetyhini abamnyama ababengabasebenzi basekhaya kunye namadoda amhlophe adlwengula uncedo lwabo." Umzimba wakhe kunye nokubhala kusebenza kunye njengokujongana neziphumo zokwenyani zemiyalelo yentlalontle ethi i-US ixabise ngokwesiko, ngakumbi xa kufikwa kwiindima zesini. Ngaphandle kobuninzi bedatha evelayo edibanisa isini sendabuko ... Cofa apha ukuze ufunde inqaku elipheleleyo.

Indlela ebalulekileyo yoKhuseleko noBulungisa

Ipapashwe nge-9 ka-Okthobha, ngo-2020
I-Emerge Centre Against Domestic Abuse yobunkokeli ekugxininiseni amava amanina aMnyama ngeNyanga yoKwazisa ngoBundlobongela baseKhaya iyasikhuthaza kuMadoda aNqanda ubuNdlobongela.
 
Cecelia Jordan's Ubulungisa buqala apho uBundlobongela ngakubafazi abaMnyama buphela -impendulo kuCaroline Randall Williams' Umzimba wam lilitye lesikhumbuzo leNdibaniselwano -Inika indawo entle yokuqala.
 
Kwiminyaka engama-38, amadoda ayeka uBundlobongela asebenze ngokuthe ngqo…Funda ingxelo epheleleyo apha

Ingxelo yezeMbali eyenza uBundlobongela buqheleke

Ipapashwe nge-2 ka-Okthobha, ngo-2020

Ukwenzakala okuphilisayo akukaze kube yinkqubo elula, engenantlungu. Kodwa kufuneka kwenzeke, kwaye kufuna ukudala indawo yokuva amabali abo bangakhange bahoywe kwaye bathuliswe ngokusebenzayo ixesha elide kakhulu. Esi siqwenga kwiNew York Times nguCaroline Randall Williams, eyabhalwa ekuqaleni kwalo nyaka, yasinceda ukuba siqaphele ukuntsokotha kwebali lethu lembali, kunye nemfuneko yokuvuma nokujongana nemisonto emininzi elukiweyo kwimbali yethu, ukwenza ubundlobongela obuqhelekileyo kubafazi abaMnyama ingakumbi. Ke ngoko, kwi-DVAM kulo nyaka, onke amanqaku ethu emfundo aya kuqulunqwa kwaye akhuthazwe linqaku likaWilliam.

Ubulungisa buqala apho uBundlobongela ngakubafazi abaMnyama buphela

Ipapashwe nge-2 ka-Okthobha, ngo-2020

Kule veki, u-Emerge uwongekile ukuphakamisa ilizwi likaCecelia Jordan, obonisa ukugocagoca okubalulekileyo ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba yinxalenye yoluntu oluNtsundu kuluntu oluzukisa ubundlobongela basekhaya kunye nolwesondo oludityaniswe ngokwemvelo kumava obukhoboka kule veki. ilizwe. UCecelia uphendula inqaku likaWilliams kwaye uthi de sijonge nzulu, ngokunyanisekileyo kuzo zonke iinkqubo zethu ezibekwe kumaziko ezibeka phantsi abantu bebala, ukhuseleko luya kuhlala "lubunewunewu obungafumanekiyo kwabo banolusu oluMnyama."

Cofa apha ukuze ufunde isiqwenga esibhaliweyo sikaCecelia Jordan.

Uthotho lwamabali aNgachazwanga 2019

Kangangamashumi eminyaka, umba wobundlobongela basekhaya (DV) wawuhlala emthunzini njengesihloko esingavumelekanga. Kutsha nje, iinzame ezinkulu zisishukumisele ukuba sidlule kwezo ntsuku zigwenxa, kwaye endaweni yoko, simema ukubandakanyeka kwingxoxo yabucala kunye neyoluntu. Ngenxa yoko, incoko yesizwe iye yenziwa malunga ne-DV kwaye amaxhoba amaninzi okuxhatshazwa afumana indlela eya kwimithombo yobutyebi abayidingayo kwaye ibafanele. Nangona kunjalo, inyaniso mayixelwe, kuphela imiba ethile yalo mba intsonkothileyo exoxwa ngayo: imiba ekulula ukusonga iintloko zethu, abantu esinokunxulumana nabo kakhulu, kunye neemeko eziziva zikhululekile kuthi. Kodwa kukho izinto ezininzi ezibaluleke ngakumbi ukwazisa ngazo, kwaye abantu abaninzi ngakumbi amabali abo ashiywe engachazwanga.

Kwiinyanga ezizayo, u-Emerge uzibophelele ekukhanyeni ukukhanya-kunye nokuhlonipha-la mabali angaxekanga. Injongo yethu kukwandisa nokulungisa ibali elikhoyo ngokubonisa amava kunye neemfuno zabo BONKE abathe baxhatshazwa gadalala kwindawo esihlala kuyo.

Apha ngezantsi uya kufumana amabali amathathu angachazwanga aya kukhutshwa kuyo yonke i-Okthobha, kunye nezixhobo.

Abasindileyo Abakhetha Ukuhlala

Ibali likaBeverly

Ibali lokuqala elingachazwanga ligxile kwabo bathe baphathwa gadalala basekhaya nabakhetha ukuhlala kubudlelwane babo. Esi siqwenga, sibhalwe ngu Beverly Gooden, yapapashwa okokuqala yi Namhlanje Bonisa ngo-2014. UGooden ngumdali we #kutheni ndihlale intshukumo, eyaqala emva kombuzo othi “kutheni engahambi” ububuzwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kuJanay Rice, emva kokuba kuvele ividiyo yomyeni wakhe, uRay Rice (owayefudula engowaseBaltimore Ravens), ebetha uJanay. Zifundele ileta kaBeverly apha.

Indlela Yokuxhasa Umntu Omthandayo

Akuyondlwan’ iyanetha ukubona abantu esibathandayo bebandezeleka ngenxa yempatho-mbi yasekhaya, kodwa kubalulekile—ngamanye amaxesha kusindisa ubomi—ukuba sibancede. Funda indlela yokubonelela ngeyona nkxaso ilungileyo kumntu ngokunika okona kulungileyo kuwe. Funda ngakumbi apha.

Abasindileyo kwi-DV Abafa ngokuzibulala

Oktobha 7, 2019

Ibali likaMarko noMitsu

Ibali lale veki elingafane lixelwe ngamaxhoba okuxhatshazwa emakhaya asweleke ngokuzibulala. UMark Flanigan uchaza amava okuxhasa umhlobo wakhe othandekayo uMitsu, owayeza kuba neminyaka engama-30 kulo Lwesihlanu ozayo, kodwa ngelishwa wafa ngokuzibulala ngolunye usuku emva kokumxelela ukuba wayenobudlelwane obuxhaphazayo.

Oktobha 7, 2019
Uphononongo lubonisa ukuba abasetyhini abahlelwe bubundlobongela basekhaya banamathuba aphindwe kasixhenxe okuba babe neengcinga zokuzibulala xa kuthelekiswa nabantu abangenalo ubundlobongela.
Kweli nqaku, uya kufumana iindlela zokuxhasa umntu ophila noxhatshazo. Funda indlela yokubona iimpawu ezilumkisayo zobundlobongela basekhaya nokuzibulala kwaye ufumane izixhobo ezifumanekayo zokuxhasa abo ubathandayo abaphilayo. Funda ngokugqithisileyo

Abadukileyo nabaGciniweyo Abasetyhini kunye naMantombazanyana eMthonyama

Oktobha 14, 2019

Ukuxhasa abasetyhini kunye namantombazana emveli

U-April Ignacio, ummi weSizwe saseTohono O'odham kunye nomseki we-Indivisible Tohono, wabelana ngamava akhe okunxibelelana neentsapho zasekuhlaleni ezinoomama, iintombi, oodade wabo okanye oomakazi abalahlekileyo okanye baphulukene nobomi babo ngenxa yobundlobongela.

Funda inqaku elipheleleyo lika-Aprili

Izixhobo zoLuntu

  • Umnxeba we-Emerge uyafumaneka kumaxhoba, kunye nabahlobo kunye nosapho oluxhalabileyo malunga nomntu ojongene noxhatshazo kwaye bafuna ukwazi ngakumbi ngeendlela zokuxhasa. Phuma umnxeba wokuXhasa kwiilwimi ezininzi kwiiyure ezingama-24: 520.795.4266 or (888)428-0101
  • Ngenkxaso yempatho-gadalala yasekhaya, omthandayo angatsalela umnxeba we-Emerge's 24/7 ngeelwimi ezininzi nangaliphi na ixesha kwa-520-795-4266 okanye 1-888-428-0101.

  • Ukuthintela ukuzibulala, i-Pima County inomgca wentlekele yoluntu ngokubanzi: (520) 622-6000 or I-1 (866) 495-6735.

  • Nantso Umnxeba weSizwe wokuzibulala (ebandakanya inqaku lencoko, ukuba iyafikeleleka): 1-800-273-8255

  •  Umsebenzi wethu, amabali ethu liZiko lezeMpilo lase-Urban Indian