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Ukwakha Uluntu Olukhuselekileyo

Phendula ikhwelo sisimemo soluntu ukuba sithathe amanyathelo malunga nokuhlakulela ukupheliswa kokuphathwa gadalala kwasekhaya kuluntu lwethu nangaphakathi kuthi.

Kuphela kuxa uninzi loluntu lwethu luthatha inyathelo apho sinokufikelela khona utshintsho lwenkcubeko olufunekayo ukuze siqinisekise ukhuseleko KUBO BONKE abasindileyo kwaye oko kuqala kuthi sonke.

Ixesha elingaka kuluntu lwethu, iZiko le-Emerge Against Domestic Abuse likhona ukuze lidale, lizinzise kwaye libhiyozele ubomi obungenaxhatshazo.

Ukusukela ngo-1975, besisoloko sibonelela ngeendawo zokuhlala kunye neenkonzo zongenelelo, sizama ukuva nokunceda abo ubomi babo bonakaliswe kwaye buphazanyiswa bubundlobongela kunye nokuphathwa gadalala.

Kodwa ekuhambeni kwethuba, siye sabona ukuba de siqale ukulungisa oonobangela bobundlobongela kwindawo yethu, sibeka nje ibhanti kule ngxaki. Ngelixa ukuba neenkonzo zenkxaso ezifumanekayo kubalulekile kumntu ngamnye nakwiintsapho ezifumana impatho-gadalala, siyazi ukuba ukuphendula kuxhatshazo akusayi kuluphelisa kwixesha elizayo.

Uluntu lwethu luzele lugonyamelo, luye lwaba yimpendulo eqhelekileyo esekelwe kwintelekelelo, inkolelo, kunye nexabiso elichaza amandla kunye nesimo ngokukwazi ukulawula nokulawula.

Oku kunxulunyaniswa ngokoqobo neendlela amandla achazwa ngayo kubudlelwane. 

Rhoqo iindlela zokuziphatha ezisetyenziswa ngabantu ngokunxulumene negunya, ukongamela kunye nolawulo zixhaswa ngokungazi luluntu lwethu kunye nokufezekisa utshintsho lwenkqubo kwaye ngokwenene sifikelele kumbono "wokuyeka ukuxhatshazwa ekhaya" kufuneka sihlolisise iindlela esisebenzisa ngayo amandla kunye nelungelo ubomi bethu.

Ngamnye wethu unoluntu oluphambili esisebenza kulo kwaye lomeleza iinkolelo kunye neenqobo ezisemgangathweni esizibambe njengeyona nto iphambili kwaye ngenxa yoko ziqinisekisa indlela esiziphatha ngayo.

Siye safundiswa kwakhona malunga nokuhambelana neendima zesini eziqhelekileyo ezibonelela ngombhalo oluhlaza kwimithetho ecacileyo malunga nendlela yokubona kunye nokuphatha abo babonwa njengabaphezulu nangaphantsi ngenxa yesazisi sesini, uhlanga, isini okanye enye ileyibhile.

Njengabantu ngabanye samkela ngesazela okanye singaqondanga ukuba ukongamela nogonyamelo ziimbonakaliso zendalo zamandla nelungelo. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba uninzi lweendlela zokuziphatha ezisetyenziswa ngabantu “azikho semthethweni” okanye azihambisani nengcaciso esemthethweni yokuxhatshazwa/nobundlobongela, kodwa zilawula okanye zixhaphaza ngokwenkcazo ngenjongo yokungqina amandla kunye nelungelo.

Oku kunokubandakanya ukuhlala uthe cwaka xa ujongana nesimilo somnye kwaye luhlobo lokuvuma kunye nokomeleza.

Lixesha lokuba uluntu lwethu luhlangane kwaye luthathe amanyathelo okuphelisa ukuxhatshazwa kunye nobundlobongela bazo zonke iintlobo.

Ubundlobongela buya kuphela xa sifuna buphele, siluluntu. Ubundlobongela buya kuphela xa siqala ukuthetha omnye nomnye ngamava ethu, xa siqala ukumamelana ngeemfuno zethu. E-Tucson, ubundlobongela buya kuphela xa siqala ukudibanisa kwindawo yokugcina intlungu esinayo sonke ngenxa yobundlobongela boluntu lwethu. Singayenza xa sikulungele.

Kukho ikhwelo eliye laphuma lijongana nobundlobongela, ukubuphelisa, kunye nokudala uluntu apho uthando, intlonipho kunye nokhuseleko lubalulekile kwaye amalungelo angenakuguqulwa kumntu wonke kwesi sixeko.

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