Ukuqaphela Izimpawu Zokuhlukunyezwa
Ukukhomba amaqhinga okuhlukumeza lapho ubudlelwano buzizwa bungafanele noma bungaphephile kungazwakala kudida futhi kukhungathekisa. Izimpawu zokuxwayisa zingabonakala noma nini ebudlelwaneni: izinsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala, ukuzibophezela kwesikhathi eside, noma uma beshadile.
Amafulegi abomvu angezansi ayizinkomba zokuthi ubuhlobo bungaba noma bungahlukumeza. Ngokuzimela, lezi zingase zingabi izinkomba eziqinile. Kodwa-ke, lapho eziningana zalezi zenzeka ngokuhlangana, zingaba ukubikezela ukuhlukunyezwa kwasekhaya, okuchazwa yi-Emerge njenge iphethini yokuziphatha okuphoqelelayo lokho kungafaka ukusetshenziswa noma ukusongelwa kodlame nokusatshiswa kwe- inhloso yokuthola amandla nokulawula ngaphezu komunye umuntu. Ukuhlukunyezwa kwasekhaya kungaba ngokomzimba, ngokwengqondo, ngokocansi noma kwezomnotho.
Ukutshela umlingani ukuthi angazilungisa kanjani izinwele zabo, ukuthi bazogqokani, baphikelele nozakwethu lapho beya kuma-aphoyintimenti, bathukuthele ngokweqile uma umlingani wabo ephuzile noma engatholakali
Ukuba nokulindela okungenakwenzeka kwamakhono, ukuletha izijeziso ezinzima ngokweqile.
Ukukhuluma ngokungahloniphi umlingani wakho, ukudelela ukulinda abasebenzi, ucabanga ukuthi bangaphezulu noma bazenza bakhulu kunabanye, babukela phansi abanye, ngaphandle bahloniphe abanye abanemvelaphi ehlukene yezenhlalo, inkolo, ubuhlanga, njll.
Ukuba nomlando wodlame ebudlelwaneni obudlule ukuqagela udlame ebudlelwaneni obuzayo.
Ukulawula isikhathi sikazakwethu, ukonakalisa ubudlelwano bomlingani nomndeni / nabangane, ukushaya / ukuthumela imiyalezo ukubheka uphathina.
Ukuba nokushintshashintsha kwemizwelo yokuqhuma (kusuka enjabulweni kuya ekudabukeni kuya ekuthukutheleni kuya ekuthokozeni esikhathini esifushane), ukugqagqana nokuklabalasa ngezinto ezincane, ungacabangi ngemiphumela yezenzo.
Ukukhombisa ukuba nempahla ngokweqile, ukwehla ngokungalindelekile, ukuba nabangane "babheke" umlingani, besola umlingani ngokudlala ngothando nabanye, bebeka izaba ngokuziphatha komona ngokuthi "kungenxa yothando."
Ukugwema ukuthatha umthwalo wezenzo, ukusola abanye ngezinkinga nemizwa, ukuphika noma ukunciphisa izindlela ezilimazayo kanye / noma ezinobudlova, ukwenza umlingani azizwe enesibopho sokuhlukumezeka okwenzekayo
Ukududula umlingani wakho ukuthi azibophezele ebudlelwaneni ngokushesha, ephuthuma umlingani ukuba angene, ashade, noma abe nezingane ngaphambi kokuba umlingani akulungele.
Ukusho izinto ezinjengokuthi: “Ngizozibulala uma ungishiya,” noma, “uma ngingenakukuthola, akekho ozokwenza kanjalo.” Ukuchitha izinsongo ngamazwana afana nalawa: "Bengimane ngincokola / bengingaqondile."
Ukulindela ukuthi umlingani wabo aphelele futhi ahlangabezane nazo zonke izidingo zabo, noma ahambisane nezindima zobulili eziqinile, noma abone ukuthi izidingo zabo ziza ngaphambi kwezidingo zomlingani wabo.
Ukuba nesethi ehlukile yemithetho nokulindelwe kumlingani wabo nakubo uqobo.
Umlingani onecala lokuya ocansini, ekhombisa ukukhathazeka okuncane ngokuthi umlingani ufuna noma akafuni ukuya ocansini.