Ogasiti 2019 - Kuthandiza Opulumuka Omwe Amatsalira
Tikakhala ndi nkhawa ndi munthu amene timamukonda, timachitapo kanthu. Poyesera kuteteza wokondedwa wathu amene akuzunzidwa, zomwe zimachitika nthawi zina zimaphatikizapo mantha ("uyenera kutuluka tsopano!"), Chikondi cholimba ("wapanga bedi lako, tsopano uyenera kugona"), mkwiyo ("Ine 'ndipatsa mnzako chidutswa cha malingaliro anga! ") Ndi kudzimva kuti ndine wolakwa (" ganizirani za ana anu! "). Tikamachita zinthu zotere ndi munthu amene amachitiridwa nkhanza, titha kuchititsa manyazi ndi mantha, ndipo, mwadala kapena mosadziwa, tisiyanitse wokondedwa wathu kuti asatiuze za zomwe akukumana nazo.
Ambiri omwe amachitiridwa nkhanza zapakhomo kondani anzawo. Monga gulu, takhala zaka makumi ambiri tikuthandiza opulumuka kuti atuluke muubwenzi wawo wankhanzawo - ndipo tawononga nthawi yaying'ono kuthandiza opulumuka kukhala otetezeka m'macheza awo. Chifukwa cha mphamvu izi, tapanga chopulumutsa kwa opulumuka omwe safuna kusiya anzawo kapena mabanja awo - ndipo tachita manyazi chifukwa chofuna kukhalabe.
M'malo modumpha kufunafuna machitidwe ochokera kwa okondedwa athu, funso limakhala momwe tingathandizire wokondedwa wathu kukhala otetezeka momwe angathere, ngakhale atasankha kukhalabe pachibwenzi. Tiyeni titsegule zokambiranazo ndi wokondedwa wathu kuti muphatikize zosankha zambiri, zoyendetsedwa ndi wozunzidwayo.
Werengani zambiri zamomwe mungayambitsire zokambirana ndi wokondedwa wanu akuzunzidwa.