Yolembedwa ndi Anna Harper-Guerrero

Emerge yakhala ikusintha ndikusintha kwazaka 6 zapitazi zomwe zikuyang'ana kwambiri kukhala bungwe lotsutsana ndi tsankho, komanso zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana. Tikugwira ntchito tsiku lililonse kuti tithane ndi mdima ndikuthana ndi tsankho poyesera kubwerera ku umunthu womwe umakhala mkati mwathu tonsefe. Tikufuna kukhala chiwonetsero cha kumasulidwa, chikondi, chifundo ndi kuchiritsidwa - zomwezi zomwe timafuna kwa aliyense amene akuvutika mdera lathu. Emerge ali paulendo wokalankhula zowona zosafotokozedwa za ntchito yathu ndipo modzipereka apereka zolemba ndi makanema modzipereka kuchokera kwa omwe amagwirizana nawo mwezi uno. Izi ndi zowona zofunika pazomwe zenizeni zomwe opulumuka akuyesa kupeza chithandizo. Timakhulupirira kuti m'choonadi chimenecho ndiye kuunika kwa njira yakutsogolo. 

Njirayi ndiyosachedwa, ndipo tsiku lililonse padzakhala maitanidwe, enieni komanso ophiphiritsira, obwereranso ku zomwe sizinathandize mdera lathu, kutitumikira monga anthu omwe akupanga Emerge, komanso zomwe sizinathandize opulumuka m'njira zomwe woyenera. Tikugwira ntchito kuti tipeze zofunikira pamoyo wa opulumuka ONSE. Tili ndiudindo woyitanitsa zokambirana molimba mtima ndi mabungwe ena osachita phindu ndikugawana nawo ulendo wathu wosokonekera pantchito iyi kuti titha kusintha njira yomwe idabadwa chifukwa chofuna kugawa ndikugawa anthu mdera lathu. Mizu yakale ya njira yopanda phindu siyinganyalanyazidwe. 

Ngati titenga mfundo yomwe a Michael Brasher adalemba mwezi uno chikhalidwe chogwirira amuna komanso anyamata, titha kuwona kufanana tikasankha kutero. "Makhalidwe omveka bwino, omwe nthawi zambiri sanasankhidwe, omwe ali mu chikhalidwe cha 'kudzikweza' ndi gawo la malo omwe amuna amaphunzitsidwa kuti achotse malingaliro awo, kulemekeza kukakamira ndikupambana, ndikuchitirana nkhanza wina ndi mnzake kutha kutengera mikhalidwe imeneyi. ”

Monga mizu yamtengo yomwe imathandizira ndikukhazikika, chimango chathu chakhazikika pazikhalidwe zomwe zimanyalanyaza mbiri yakale yokhudza nkhanza zapabanja komanso zachiwerewere monga chiyambi cha tsankho, ukapolo, kusankhana mitundu, kusankhana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, komanso transphobia. Machitidwe oponderezawa amatipatsa chilolezo chonyalanyaza zomwe a Black, Indigenous, ndi People of Colour - kuphatikiza iwo omwe amadziwika m'magulu a LGBTQ - osakhala ndi phindu locheperako komanso osapezeka kwenikweni. Ndizowopsa kwa ife kuganiza kuti mfundo izi sizimalowa munthawi yakutsogolo kwa ntchito yathu ndikukhala ndi malingaliro ndi machitidwe amtsiku ndi tsiku.

Ndife okonzeka kutaya zonse. Ndipo mwa zonse zomwe tikutanthauza, nenani zoona zonse momwe ntchito zankhanza zapabanja sizinapezere mwayi kwa opulumuka ONSE. Sitinaganizirepo gawo lathu pothana ndi tsankho komanso kulimbana ndi mdima kwa opulumuka akuda. Ndife osagwiritsa ntchito phindu lomwe lakhazikitsa gawo laukadaulo kuchokera kuzowawa m'dera lathu chifukwa ndiye mtundu womwe tidapangidwira kuti tigwiritse ntchito. Takhala tikulimbana kuti tiwone momwe kuponderezana komwe kumabweretsa zachiwawa zosatha kuzindikira m'derali zagwiranso ntchito mwachinyengo munjira yomwe idapangidwa kuti iyankhe omwe apulumuka pa chiwawacho. Pakadali pano, opulumuka ONSE sangakwaniritse zosowa zawo m'dongosolo lino, ndipo ambiri a ife omwe tikugwira ntchitoyi takhala tikugwiritsa ntchito njira yodzitetezera kuzowona za iwo omwe sangatumikire. Koma izi zitha, ndipo ziyenera, kusintha. Tiyenera kusintha dongosololi kuti umunthu wathunthu wa opulumuka ONSE uwoneke ndikulemekezedwa.

Kuti tilingalire za momwe tingasinthire ngati malo mkati mwamakina ovuta, ozikika kwambiri amafunika kulimba mtima. Zimatipangitsa kuti tiziika pachiwopsezo ndikuwerengera zoyipa zomwe tachita. Zimatithandizanso kuti tizingokhalira kuganizira za tsogolo lathu. Zimatipangitsa kuti tisakhale chete pazowonadi. Zoonadi zomwe tonse timadziwa zilipo. Tsankho silatsopano. Opulumuka akuda akumverera kukhumudwitsidwa ndi kuwoneka si kwatsopano. Chiwerengero cha Akazi Amwenye Omwe Akusowa ndi Kuphedwa siatsopano. Koma kuyika kwathu patsogolo pankhaniyi ndi kwatsopano. 

Akazi Akuda amayenera kukondedwa, kukondweretsedwa, ndi kukwezedwa chifukwa cha nzeru, chidziwitso, komanso kukwanitsa kuchita zinthu zina. Tiyeneranso kuvomereza kuti Akazi Akuda sangachitire mwina koma kupulumuka pakati pa anthu omwe sankawakonda. Tiyenera kumvera mawu awo pazakusintha kumatanthauza koma kutenga udindo wathu kuzindikira ndi kuthana ndi kupanda chilungamo komwe kumachitika tsiku ndi tsiku.

Amayi Amakolo amayenera kukhala momasuka ndikulemekezedwa pazonse zomwe adaluka padziko lapansi lomwe timapitilirako - kuphatikiza matupi awo omwe. Kuyesayesa kwathu kumasula anthu amtundu wathu ku nkhanza zapakhomo kuyeneranso kukhala ndi umwini wa zowawa zakale ndi zowonadi zomwe timabisala za omwe adabzala mbewu zawo. Kuphatikiza umwini wa njira zomwe timayesera kuthirira nyembazo tsiku ndi tsiku ngati gulu.

Palibe vuto kunena zowona pazomwe zidachitikazi. M'malo mwake, ndizofunikira kwambiri pakupulumuka pamodzi kwa onse opulumuka mdera lino. Tikaika pakati omwe amamvedwa pang'ono, timaonetsetsa kuti malowa ndi otseguka kwa aliyense.

Titha kulingalira ndikumanga mwachangu makina omwe ali ndi kuthekera kwakukulu koteteza chitetezo ndikusunga umunthu wa aliyense mdera lathu. Titha kukhala malo omwe aliyense amalandilidwa mokwanira, modzaza, komanso komwe moyo wa aliyense uli ndi phindu, pomwe kuyankha kumawoneka ngati chikondi. Dera lomwe tonse tili ndi mwayi wopanga moyo wopanda chiwawa.

Queens ndi gulu lothandizira lomwe lidapangidwa ku Emerge kuti likhazikitse zokumana nazo za Akazi Akuda pantchito yathu. Idapangidwa ndi kutsogozedwa ndi Akazi Akuda.

Sabata ino tikupereka monyadira mawu ofunikira komanso zokumana nazo za a Queens, omwe adadutsa njira motsogozedwa ndi Cecelia Jordan m'masabata anayi apitawa kuti akalimbikitse osalondera, osaphika, onena zowona ngati njira yopita kuchilitso. Izi ndi zomwe a Queens adasankha kugawana ndi anthu ammudzi polemekeza Mwezi Wodziwitsa Zachiwawa Pabanja.