Gumiguru 2019 - Kutsigira vanyajambwa vanofa nekuzviuraya
Iyi svondo nyaya yakawandisa isingataurike ndeyevaya vanoshungurudzwa mudzimba vanofa nekuzviuraya. Mark Flanigan anorondedzera chiitiko chekutsigira shamwari yake yaaida Mitsu, akafa nekuzviuraya rimwe zuva mushure mekumuzivisa kuti anga ari muhukama hunoshungurudza.
Shamwari yangu yakarasikirwa nehupenyu nekuda kwechisimba mudzimba, uye kwenguva yakareba, ndaizvipa mhosva.
Shamwari yangu Mitsu aive akanaka munhu, mukati nekunze. Pakutanga kubva kuJapan, aigara uye achidzidzira kuve mukoti muno muUS Kunyemwerera kwake kunopenya uye hunhu hunofadza zvaive zvekuti vanhu vakamukomberedza vaisakwanisa kuramba kuva shamwari dzake dzinokurumidza uye dzechokwadi. Aive mumwe munhu anonzwira tsitsi, runako, uye aive nezvakawanda zvekuraramira. Zvinosuruvarisa, Mitsu akarasikirwa noupenyu hwake nekuda kwechisimba chemhuri.
Ini ndakatanga kusangana naMitsu makore matanhatu apfuura muWashington, DC, panguva yegore negore Cherry Blossom Festival. Akanga achizvipira ipapo semuturikiri uye akapfeka inoyevedza inopenya pink uye chena kimono. Panguva iyoyo, ini ndanga ndichishandira hwaro hwedzidzo hune chekuita neJapan, uye isu tanga tichitsvaga vadzidzi vepasirese pachikoro chedu chakabatana muTokyo. Mumwe wevatinoshanda navo haana kukwanisa kuzviita zuva iri, uye dumba redu raive nevashandi vashoma. Pasina kuzeza, Mitsu (wandakanga ndangosangana naye) akasvetukira mukati ndokutanga kutibatsira!
Kunyangwe aive asina hukama nenheyo kana chikoro, Mitsu akafara akaomerera pakuita chero chaaigona kutiitira. Ehezve, nehunhu hwake hunofara uye kimono inoyevedza inoshamisa, iye akakwevera vazhinji vanofarira vanyoreri kupfuura zvataigona kunge takatarisira. Vedu vega vevazvipiri vakazvipira vakanyatso batwa naiye, uye vakazvininipisa chaizvo nekumuona akatsigira rutsigiro. Icho chingori chimwe chidiki chiratidzo cherudzi rwemunhu zvechokwadi asina kuzvipira iye aive.
Mitsu neni takaramba tichitaurirana kwemakore, asi rimwe zuva akandiudza kuti anga asarudza kuenda kuHawaii. Chakanga chisiri chisarudzo chakareruka kwaari kuti aite, nekuti aive nehupenyu hwakazara uye neshamwari zhinji muDC Aive achidzidzira kuve mukoti uye aiita mushe mushe pazviri, kunyangwe painetsa kudzidza uye achitora chirongwa chake chose muChirungu, icho ndiwo waiva mutauro wake wechipiri. Zvakangodaro, akanzwa musengwa kuvabereki vake vakwegura, semwana wavo mumwechete, kuve padyo nenyika yekuJapan.
Sekubvumirana, uye kuenderera mberi nedzidzo nekukanganisa kushoma, akatamira kuHawaii. Nenzira iyoyo, aigona achiri kudzidza ukoti (iro raive basa rakamunakira) mukati mehurongwa hwepamusoro hweAmerica uku achikwanisa kudzokera kumhuri yake kuJapan sezvaidiwa. Ini ndinofungidzira kuti akanzwa kunze kwenzvimbo pakutanga, sezvo akange asina chaizvo mhuri kana shamwari imomo muHawaii, asi akaita zvakanakisa uye akaenderera mberi nedzidzo.
Panguva iyi, ndakaenda kuno kuTucson, Arizona, kuti nditange gore rangu idzva rekushandira neAmeriCorps. Pasina nguva refu, ndakashamisika kudzidza kubva kuna Mitsu kuti aive nechikomba, sezvo anga asina kufambidzana chero munhu kare. Zvisinei, airatidzika kuva anofara, uye vaviri vacho vakatora nzendo dzinoverengeka dzakasiyana pamwechete. Kubva pamifananidzo yavo, airatidzika senge ane hushamwari, anobuda, mhando yemitambo. Sezvo aifarira kufamba uye kuongorora kunze, ini ndakatora izvi sechiratidzo chinoratidza kuti anga awana waanowirirana naye hupenyu.
Kunyangwe ndichinzwa kufara kwaari pakutanga, ndakavhunduka kunzwa gare gare kubva kuna Mitsu kuti ndiye akabatwa nekushungurudzwa mumuviri uye pamoyo. Iye mukomana waaidanana naye aigara aine hasha uye kuita zvechisimba mushure mekunwisa doro, uye akamuburitsa. Vakanga vatenga kondomu pamwe chete muHawaii, saka akanzwa kushamwaridzana pamwe nehupfumi hwakabatwa nehukama hwavo hwemari. Mitsu aiedza kufunga kuti angaite sei nemamiriro ezvinhu uye aitya zvakanyanya kuedza kumusiya. Aida kudzokera kuJapan, asi akaremadzwa nekutya uye kunyara pamamiriro ake akaipa.
Ndakaedza kumuvimbisa kuti hapana chimwe cheizvozvo yaive mhosva yake, uye kuti hapana munhu aifanirwa kutambura nemhirizhonga kana kurohwa mudzimba. Aive aine shamwari shoma ipapo, asi hapana waaigona kugara naye kweanopfuura husiku humwe kana maviri. Ndakanga ndisingazive dzimba dzekugara muOahu, asi ndakatarisa kumusoro zviwanikwa zvine chekuita nechimbichimbi zvevanoshungurudzwa uye ndakavagovana naye. Ndakavimbisa kuti ndaizoedza kumubatsira kuti awane gweta muHawaii iro rinozivikanwa nenyaya dzemhirizhonga mudzimba. Rutsigiro urwu rwakaita kunge rwuchamupa zororo kwenguva, uye akanditenda nekumubatsira. Aigara achifunga, akabvunza kuti ndaive ndichiita sei munzvimbo yangu nyowani muArizona uye akandiudza kuti aitarisira kuti zvinhu zvicharamba zvichindifambira zvakanaka munzvimbo yangu nyowani.
Ndakanga ndisingazvizivi panguva iyoyo, asi iyo ichave ndiyo yekupedzisira nguva yandakambonzwa kubva kuMitsu. Ndakasvika kushamwari kuHawaii ndikawana gweta rinoremekedzwa kwazvo randaifunga kuti richakwanisa kumubatsira nenyaya yake. Ndakamutumira ruzivo, asi handina kumbonzwa zvakare, izvo zvakandipa kunetseka kukuru. Pakupedzisira, angangoita mavhiki matatu gare gare, ndakanzwa kubva kuhama yaMitsu kuti anga aenda. Sezvazvinoitika, akange atora hupenyu hwake zuva rimwe chete mushure mekunge ini naye tange tapedzisira kutaura. Ini ndinogona kungofungidzira kurwadziwa kusingaperi uye kutambura kwaanofanira kunge anga achinzwa mumaawa mashoma apfuura.
Nekuda kweizvozvo, pakange pasina nyaya yekutevera nayo. Sezvo pasina mhosva yaakange amhan'arirwa kumurume waaidanana naye, mapurisa akashaya zvekuenderera mberi. Nekuzviuraya kwake, kwaisazove nekumwe kuongorora kunze kwechikonzero chaicho chekufa kwake. Nhengo dzemhuri yake dzaive dzichirarama dzaive dzisina chishuwo chekutora nzira yekutevera chero chinhu munguva yavo yekusuwa. Sezvo ndakasuruvara uye ndakakatyamadzwa sezvandakanga ndiri pakurasika kamwe kamwe kweshamwari yangu yepamwoyo Mitsu, chakanyanya kundirwadza ndechekuti ndakanga ndisina kuzokwanisa kumuitira chinhu pakupedzisira. Iye zvino zvaive zvanyanya kunonoka, uye ndakanzwa kuti ndaizvifuridza.
Ndichiri kuziva padanho rekuti hapana chimwezve chandingadai ndakagona kuita, chikamu changu chakaramba ndichizvipa mhosva nekusakwanisa kudzivirira kurwadziwa nekurasikirwa kwake neimwe nzira. Muhupenyu hwangu nebasa, ndakagara ndichiedza kuve mumwe munhu anoshumira vamwe, uye kuita yakanaka. Ndainzwa sekunge ndakanga ndasiya zvachose Mitsu pasi panguva yake yekushaiwa kukuru, uye pakanga pasina kana chinhu chandingaite kuti ndichinje iko kutyisa kuziva. Ndakanzwa hasha huru, kusuruvara, uye kuva nemhosva kamwechete.
Ndichiri kuenderera mberi nekushandira kubasa, ndakatanga kuzvidya mwoyo ndikabva ndasiya zviitiko zvakawanda zvemagariro zvandaimbofarira kuita. Ndainetseka kurara husiku, kazhinji kumuka nedikita rinotonhora. Ndakarega kushanda, kuenda ku karaoke, uye kushamwaridzana mumapoka akakura, zvese nekuda kwekunzwa kusingaperi kwekutadza kwandaive ndatadza kubatsira shamwari yangu panguva yaainyanya kuda. Kwemavhiki nemwedzi, ndakagara mazuva mazhinji mune izvo zvandinogona kungorondedzera sedutu rinorema, rinovava.
Neraki, ndakakwanisa kubvuma kune vamwe kuti ndaive ndakatarisana neshungu dzakanyanya idzi uye ndaida rutsigiro. Kunyangwe ndisina kutaura pachena nezvazvo kusvika parizvino, ndakabatsirwa zvakanyanya nedzimwe shamwari dzangu dzepedyo uye vandaishanda navo kubasa. Vakandikurudzira kuti nditsvage imwe nzira yekukudza ndangariro dzaMitsu, nenzira ingave ine chinangwa uye iine imwe mhando yekusingaperi. Kutenda rutsigiro rwavo rwemutsa, ndakakwanisa kujoina akati wandei mashopu nezviitiko muno muTucson zvinotsigira vanotambudzwa mumhirizhonga mudzimba uyezve vanoshanda kubatsira kusimudza majaya ane hutano uye anoremekedza.
Ini zvakare ndakatanga kuona anozvibata ehutano murapi pakiriniki yeveruzhinji yehutano kiriniki, uyo akandibatsira zvisingaite kuti ndinzwisise uye ndishande kuburikidza neyangu chaiyo yakaoma manzwiro ekutsamwa, kurwadziwa, uye kusuwa kwakakomberedza kurasikirwa kweshamwari yangu yakanaka. Akandibatsira kufamba munzira murefu yekudzoka uye kunzwisisa kuti kurwadziwa kwekushungurudzika mupfungwa kwakangodzora sekutyoka gumbo kana chirwere chemwoyo, kunyangwe kana zviratidzo zvacho zvisiri pachena zvekunze. Nhanho nhanho, yakave nyore, kunyangwe mamwe mazuva kurwadziwa kwekushungurudzika kuchindirova ndisingatarisiri.
Nekugovana nyaya yake, nekuratidzira nyaya dzinowanzo-kufuratirwa dzekuzviuraya nekuda kwekushungurudzwa, ndinovimba kuti isu senzanga tinogona kuramba tichidzidza nekutaura pamusoro pehosha yakaipa iyi. Kana kunyangwe munhu mumwechete akazoziva nezve mhirizhonga mudzimba nekuverenga chinyorwa ichi, uye achishanda kubatsira kuchipedza, ipapo ndichafara.
Kunyangwe ndisingazombo suwa kuona kana kutaura ne shamwari yangu futi, ndinoziva kuti kunyemwerera kwake kunopenya uye tsitsi dzinoyemurika kune vamwe hadzimbofa dzakadzima, sezvo achiramba ari pabasa ratinoita isu tese pamwechete kuti nyika ive nzvimbo yakajeka mukati medu nharaunda. Kubva ipapo ndakazvipira zvizere kuiri basa pano muTucson senzira yekupemberera nguva pfupi-pfupi yaMitsu pano pasi, uye nhaka inoshamisa yakanaka yaanoramba achisiya nesu, kunyangwe izvozvi.