Yakanyorwa chidimbu neVakomana kune Varume
Ipo paine gakava rakawanda pamusoro pezviitiko zvehondo zvevagari vemo, mudetembi weNashville Caroline Williams nguva pfupi yadarika akatiyeuchidza nezvedanda rinowanzo kufuratirwa mune ino nyaya: kubata chibharo, uye tsika yekubata chibharo. Mune OpEd yakanzi, "Iwe Unoda Confederate Monument? Muviri wangu iConfederate Monument, ”Anofunga nezvenhoroondo yaive seri kwemumvuri weganda rake rakatsvukuruka. "Sezvo nhoroondo yemhuri yakagara ichitaura, uye sezvo kuongororwa kwazvino kweDNA kwandibvumidza kuti nditsigire, ini ndiri wedzinza remadzimai evatema vaive vashandi vepamba nevarume vachena vakabhinya rubatsiro rwavo." Muviri wake uye zvekunyora zvinoshanda pamwechete sekunangana kwechokwadi mhedzisiro yemagariro mirairo iyo US yakagara ichikoshesa, kunyanya kana zvasvika pamabasa echikadzi. Kunyangwe paine huwandu hwakasimba hwedhata iri kubuda iyo inosanganisa kusangana kwechinyakare kwevakadzi nevakomana kumatambudziko ehutano hwevanhu uye mhirizhonga, nhasi, kuyambuka America, vakomana vachiri kungowedzerwa pachikoro chekare-cheAmerica chirevo: "murume kumusoro."
Kufumurwa kwaWilliam kwakakodzera uye kwakasununguka munhoroondo yemhuri yake kunotiyeuchidza kuti kuzviisa pasi pevakadzi nevakadzi nemadzinza zvakagara zvichifambirana. Kana isu tichida kutarisana kana, isu tinofanira kusangana nezvose zviri zviviri. Chikamu chekuita icho chiri kuziva kuti pane chaizvo zvakajairwa zvinhu nemaitiro zvinosvibisa hupenyu hwedu hwezuva nezuva nhasi muAmerica izvo zvinoramba zvichitsigira kubatwa chibharo. Izvi hazvisi nezvezvifananidzo, Williams anotiyeuchidza, asi nezve maitiro atinoda kuti tibatanidze pamwe chete nezviitiko zvekare zvekutonga zvinoruramisa nekugadzirisa mhirizhonga pabonde.
Tora semuenzaniso, mutambo wekudanana, umo mukomana akarambwa anoenda kune hurefu hwehugamba kuti akunde kudiwa kwemusikana asingamufarire-kukunda kwake kuramba pakupedzisira neakanyanya kudanana chiratidzo. Kana nzira idzo vakomana vanosimudzwa kuti vaite bonde, chero zvodii Chokwadi, hunhu hwatinowanzoisa mukati mevakomana vadiki mazuva ese, hwakabatana nepfungwa dzakareba nezve "varume chaivo," ndiyo hwaro husingadzivisike hwetsika yekubata chibharo.
Izvo zvakasarudzika, kazhinji zvisinganzverwe, tsika dzakakumikidzwa mutsika yekodhi kuti "murume kumusoro" inzvimbo yenzvimbo umo varume vanodzidziswa kubvisa kubva uye kudzikisira manzwiro, kukudza kumanikidza uye kukunda, uye kubata zvine utsinye kugona kweumwe neumwe. kudzokorora tsika idzi. Kutsiva hunyanzvi hwangu kuzviitiko zvevamwe (uye nezvangu) nemvumo yekukunda uye kuwana yangu ndiyo nzira yandakadzidza nayo kuva murume. Maitiro akajairwa ekutonga anobatanidza nyaya iyo Williams anotaurira kutsika idzo dziripo nhasi apo mukomana ane makore matatu ekuberekwa anonyadziswa nemunhu mukuru waanoda kuchema paanonzwa kurwadziwa, kutya, kana tsitsi: “vakomana havacheme ”(Vakomana rasai kunzwa).
Nekudaro, kufamba kwekupedzisa kukudzwa kwekutonga kuri kukura, zvakare. MuTucson, pavhiki rakapihwa, munzvimbo dzinosvika gumi nenomwe dzezvikoro uye paJuvenile Detention Center, vangangoita makumi matanhatu vakadzidziswa, varume vakuru vanobva kumatunhu ese vanogara pasi kuti vatore chikamu mumapoka ekutaura pamwe nevakomana vanenge mazana maviri vachiri kuyaruka sechikamu chebasa reVakomana. Varume Tucson. Kune vazhinji vevakomana ava, ino ndiyo chete nzvimbo muhupenyu hwavo umo zvakachengeteka kurega kwavo kurinda, kutaura chokwadi nezve manzwiro avari kuita, uye kukumbira rutsigiro. Asi idzi mhando dzezvirongwa zvinofanirwa kuwana zvakanyanya kuteedzera kubva kumatunhu ese enharaunda yedu kana tichizotsiva tsika yekubata chibharo netsika yemvumo inosimudzira kuchengetedzwa neruramisiro kune vese. Tinoda rubatsiro rwako kuwedzera basa iri.
Musi waGumiguru 25, 26, na28, Boys to Men Tucson iri kubatana neEmerge, iyo University yeArizona pamwe nemubatanidzwa wemapoka enharaunda akazvipira kuitisa musangano wekuparadza wakanangana nekuronga nharaunda dzedu kugadzira dzimwe nzira dziri nani dzevakomana vechidiki nevarume- kuzivikanwa kwevechidiki. Ichi chiitiko chinofambidzana chinotora kudzika kwakadzika mumasimba anogadzira hunhu uye kugadzikana kwepamoyo kune vechidiki muTucson. Ino inzvimbo yakakosha uko izwi rako nerutsigiro rwako zvinogona kutibatsira kuita musiyano wakakura mumhando yetsika iripo yechizvarwa chinotevera kana zvasvika kune murume nemukadzi, kuenzana, uye kururamisira. Tinokukoka iwe ujoinane nesu kune ino nhanho inoshanda kurima nharaunda mune chengetedzo neruramisiro zvakajairika, pane kusarudzika. Kuti uwane rumwe ruzivo pane foramu, kana kunyoresa kuti upinde, ndapota shanya www.btmtucson.com/masculinityforum2020.
Uyu unongova mumwe muenzaniso wesangano hombe-rekukudziridza kudzvinyirira kwerudo kune zvakajairika tsika dzekutonga. Angela Davis, muridzi wezvinhu, akataura nezvekuchinja uku zvakanyanya paakashandura munyengetero werunyararo mumusoro wake, achisimbisa achiti, "Ini handichabvuma zvinhu zvandisingakwanise kuchinja. Ndiri kuchinja zvinhu zvandisingagone kugamuchira. ” Apo patinofunga nezve kukanganiswa kwemhirizhonga mudzimba uye pabonde munharaunda medu mwedzi uno, dai isu tese takashinga uye takatsunga kumutevera.
About Vakomana Kune Varume
MASHOKO
Chiono chedu ndechekusimbisa nharaunda nekushevedza varume kuti vakwire kudzidzisa vakomana vechidiki parwendo rwavo rwekuva murume ane hutano.
MISSION
Basa redu ndere kutora, kudzidzisa, nekupa simba nharaunda dzevarume kuti vadzidzise vakomana vachiri kuyaruka kuburikidza nepamhepo saiti, kushanya kwekushanya, uye tsika dzazvino dzekufamba.