KwiCecelia Jordan's Ubulungisa buqala apho uBundlobongela ngakubafazi abaMnyama buphela, unika le nyaniso inamandla:
"Ukhuseleko bubunewunewu obungafikelelekiyo kulusu oluMnyama."
Andizange ebomini bam ndizive ukuba la mazwi ayinyaniso ngakumbi. Sisentlungwini yokulwela umphefumlo weli lizwe. Sibambekile kutsalo loluntu olujongene nezona demon zalo zimnyama kunye neminqweno yalo ephezulu. Kwaye ilifa lobundlobongela obujoliswe kubantu bam - abantu abaNtsundu, ngakumbi abafazi abaNtsundu - lisenze saphelelwa lithemba kule nto siyibonayo nesijongene nayo namhlanje. Sindindisholo. Kodwa asikulahli ubuntu bethu.
Xa ndaseka ubizo oluya emadodeni phantse kwiminyaka engama-20 eyadlulayo, ndaba nombono wokujongana nengcinezelo ephakathi kwamacandelo ezingcanjini zayo. Ukuphelisa ucalucalulo ngokwesini kunye nobuhlanga. Ukujonga kwabo bakwimida yemida ukuba bachaze amava abo aphilayo kunye nokuchaza izisombululo eziya kusebenza ngempumelelo ebomini babo. Kangangamashumi eminyaka, uMbizo oluya kuMadoda uhlanganise amakhulu amawaka abantu abachonge amadoda abanqwenela ukuba ngamahlakani kwabasetyhini kunye namantombazana. Sibabizele kulo msebenzi, ngelixa sibabambe baphendule, kwaye sibafundise kwaye sibaxhobise ukuba bathethe ngokuphandle kwaye bathathe amanyathelo okuthintela ubundlobongela obusekelwe kwisini kunye nocalulo. Kwaye sinokwenza okufanayo nakwabo bafuna ukuba ngamaqabane abantu abaNtsundu nabanye abantu bebala. Uyabona, awunakuchasa ngokwesini ngaphandle kokuchasa ubuhlanga.
UJordan uphelise impendulo yakhe ngolu bizo lwesenzo: “Lonke intsebenziswano nomntu wasetyhini oNtsundu izisa ithuba lokujongana nobundlobongela basekhaya nobukhoboka, nokucamagushela ukonakaliswa kwenkqubo, okanye ukhetho lokuqhubeka nokulandela izithethe ezinobundlobongela ekuhlaleni.
Ndiziva ndinelunda kukusebenza kunye nombutho ofana no-Emerge okulungeleyo ukwamnkela ubuntu babo bacinezelweyo, ingakumbi amabhinqa aMnyama. Ukuvuma ukuphuma phambili kunye nokuxhasa amabali kunye namava abo ngaphandle kokuhlanjululwa okanye ukuhlela ukuzithuthuzela. Ukubonelela ngobunkokeli kukubonelela ngeenkonzo zoluntu ngokubanzi, ukuvuma ngokungaxolisi, kunye nokufuna izisombululo zokwenene zokuphelisa ingcinezelo yabasetyhini abaMnyama ekunikezelweni kweenkonzo.
Indima yam, njengomntu oNtsundu nanjengenkokeli yobulungisa kwezentlalo, kukusebenzisa iqonga lam ukuphakamisa le miba. Ukuphakamisa amazwi abafazi abaMnyama kunye nabanye abajongene neendlela ezininzi zengcinezelo yeqela. Ukuthetha inyaniso yam. Ukwabelana ngamava am okuphila-nangona inokuba buhlungu kwaye inceda ikakhulu ukuqhubela phambili ukuqonda kwabantu abaMhlophe. Sekunjalo, ndizimisele ukusebenzisa impembelelo endinayo ukuze ndisukele ihlabathi elinobulungisa nelinobulungisa.
Ndenza umnxeba weJordan kwaye ndizama ukuhlangabezana nentsebenziswano nganye ngenjongo eyifaneleyo. Ndiyakubongoza ukuba undimanye nam ekwenzeni okufanayo. Singakwazi ukudala ihlabathi apho onke amadoda namakhwenkwe anothando kwaye ahloniphayo kwaye bonke abafazi, amantombazana, kunye nabo basemdeni wemida baxabiswa kwaye bakhuselekile.
Malunga nobizo oluya emadodeni
I-Call to Men, isebenza ukubandakanya amadoda ekuthabatheni inyathelo ngokuchasene nokuphathwa gadalala kwasekhaya ngokukhula komntu, uxanduva kunye nothethathethwano noluntu. Ukususela ngo-2015 siye sanebhongo ngokusebenzisana noTony Porter, i-CEO ye-Call to Men emsebenzini wethu ukuba sibe ngumbutho ochasayo, umbutho weenkcubeko ezininzi. Siyabulela kuTony kunye nabasebenzi abaninzi kwi-Call to Men abaye banikezela ngenkxaso, isikhokelo, intsebenziswano kunye nothando kwintlangano yethu kunye noluntu lwethu kule minyaka.