Ukuchaza ngokutsha Ubudoda: Incoko Madoda

Yiba kunye nathi kwingxoxo enefuthe ebonisa amadoda aphambili ekulungiseni ubudoda kunye nokujongana nobundlobongela phakathi koluntu lwethu.
 

Ukuphathwa gadalala kwasekhaya kuchaphazela wonke umntu, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba sidibane ukukuphelisa. I-Emerge ikumema ukuba uhlanganyele nathi kwingxoxo yephaneli ngentsebenziswano kunye Imveliso yeGoodwill yaseMazantsi eArizona njengenxalenye yethu Lunchtime Insights series. Ngalo msitho, siza kubamba iingxoxo ezixhokonxa iingcinga namadoda aphambili ekubumbeni ngokutsha ubudoda nokushukuxa ubundlobongela kwiindawo esihlala kuzo.

Imodareyithwe ngu-Anna Harper, uSekela Mongameli oLawulayo we-Emerge kunye neGosa eliyiNtloko leSicwangciso, esi siganeko siza kuphonononga iindlela zokubandakanya amadoda kunye namakhwenkwe, kuqaqambisa ukubaluleka kobunkokeli baBantu abaNtsundu kunye neMveli yembala (BIPOC), kwaye iya kubandakanya iingcinga zobuqu ezivela kubaphathi bephaneli. umsebenzi wabo wokuguqula. 

Iphaneli yethu iya kuqulatha iinkokeli eziphuma kwiQela le-Emerge's Men's Engagement kunye namaZiko oLutsha eGoodwill's Re-Engagement Centres. Emva kwengxoxo, abakhoyo baya kuba nethuba lokuthetha ngokuthe ngqo nabaphathi bephaneli.
 
Ukongeza kwingxoxo yephaneli, i-Emerge iya kubonelela, siya kwabelana ngohlaziyo malunga nokuza kwethu Yenza uTshintsho kwiNgxelo yoNcedo lwaMadoda, Uncedo lokuqala lwase-Arizona oluzinikele ekuxhaseni amadoda anokuba semngciphekweni wokwenza ukhetho olunobundlobongela kunye nokuqaliswa kweklinikhi yoluntu entsha yamadoda. 
Sijoyine njengoko sisebenzela ukudala uluntu olukhuselekileyo lomntu wonke.

Isigqibo seNkundla ePhakamileyo yase-Arizona siya kubenzakalisa abasindileyo kuxhatshazo

Kwiziko le-Emerge Against Domestic Abuse (Emerge), sikholelwa ukuba ukhuseleko sisiseko soluntu olungaxhatshazwayo. Ixabiso lethu lokhuseleko nothando kuluntu lwethu lisibiza ukuba sigwebe isigqibo sale veki seNkundla ePhakamileyo yase-Arizona, esiya kuthi sibeke emngciphekweni impilo-ntle yamaxhoba obundlobongela basekhaya (DV) kunye nezigidi ezingakumbi kulo lonke elase-Arizona.

Ngo-2022, isigqibo seNkundla ePhakamileyo yase-United States sokuchitha u-Roe v. Wade savula umnyango wokuba amazwe awise imithetho yawo kwaye ngelishwa, iziphumo zichazwe kwangaphambili. NgoAprili 9, 2024, iNkundla ePhakamileyo yase-Arizona yawisa isigwebo esixhasa ukumiselwa kokuvalwa umlomo kokuqhomfa. Umthetho we-1864 ngumthetho ophantse wavala wokuqhomfa owenza kube lulwaphulo-mthetho abasebenzi bezempilo ababonelela ngeenkonzo zokuqhomfa. Ayinikezeli ngaphandle kombulo okanye udlwengulo.

Kwiiveki nje ezidlulileyo, u-Emerge uye wabhiyozela isigqibo seBhodi yaBaphathi be-Pima County sokubhengeza iNyanga ka-Epreli yoKwazisa ngoHlaselo ngokweSondo. Emva kokusebenza namaxhoba e-DV ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-45, siyayiqonda indlela kaninzi ngayo uhlaselo ngokwesondo kunye nokunyanzeliswa kokuzala zisetyenziswa njengendlela yokuqinisekisa amandla kunye nolawulo kubudlelwane obuxhaphazayo. Lo mthetho, owandulela ubuzwe base-Arizona, uya kunyanzela amaxhoba obundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo ukuba baphathe ukukhulelwa okungafunwayo-ubahluthe amandla phezu kwemizimba yabo. Imithetho ethoba isidima efana nale iyingozi kakhulu ngokuyinxenye kuba inokuba zizixhobo ezivunywe ngurhulumente kubantu abasebenzisa impatho gadalala ukwenza ingozi.

Ukhathalelo lokuqhomfa lukhathalelo lwempilo nje. Ukulivala kukumisela umda kwilungelo lomntu elisisiseko. Njengazo zonke iintlobo zengcinezelo yenkqubo, lo mthetho uya kubonisa ingozi enkulu kubantu abasele bengabona basesichengeni. Izinga lokubhubha koomama ababhinqileyo abaMnyama kule dolophu phantse amatyeli amathathu eyabafazi abamhlophe. Ngaphezu koko, abafazi abamnyama bafumana ukunyanzeliswa ngokwesondo kwi ireyithi kabini yabafazi abamhlophe. Lo mahluko uya kwanda kuphela xa urhulumente evunyelwe ukuba anyanzelise ukukhulelwa.

Ezi zigqibo zeNkundla ePhakamileyo azibonakalisi amazwi okanye iimfuno zoluntu lwethu. Ukusukela ngo-2022, kuye kwakho umzamo wokufumana isilungiso kumgaqo-siseko wase-Arizona kuvoto. Ukuba ipasisiwe, iya kusichitha isigqibo seNkundla ePhakamileyo yase-Arizona kwaye iseke ilungelo elisisiseko lokuqhomfa e-Arizona. Ngazo naziphi na iindlela abakhetha ukwenjenjalo, sinethemba lokuba uluntu lwethu luya kukhetha ukuma kunye nabasindileyo kwaye lusebenzise ilizwi lethu elihlangeneyo ukukhusela amalungelo asisiseko.

Ukuthethelela ukhuseleko kunye nentlalo-ntle yabo bonke abasindileyo kuxhatshazo kwiNqila yasePima, kufuneka sibeke amava amalungu oluntu lwethu olunezibonelelo ezinyiniweyo, iimbali zokwenzakala, kunye nonyango olucalucalulo ngaphakathi kukhathalelo lwempilo kunye neenkqubo zomthetho zolwaphulo-mthetho ezibabeka engozini. Asinakuwuqonda umbono wethu woluntu olukhuselekileyo ngaphandle kobulungisa bokuzala. Sikunye, sinokunceda ukubuyisela amandla kunye ne-arhente kumaxhoba afanele onke amathuba okufumana inkululeko kuxhatshazo.

1864 UMTHETHO WOKUPHUPHA UBEBANGE ABASINDE KUGONYAMELO LWASEKHAYA.

I-TUCSON, i-ARIZONA - Kwiziko le-Emerge Against Domestic Abuse (Emerge), sikholelwa ukuba ukhuseleko lusisiseko soluntu olukhululekile ekuxhatshazweni. Isigqibo seNkundla ePhakamileyo yase-Arizona nge-9 ka-Epreli 2024 sokuxhasa ukuvalwa kokuqhomfa kwenkulungwane kudala sibeka esichengeni izigidi.

Kwiiveki nje ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, u-Emerge ubhiyozele ukuba iBhodi yaBaphathi be-Pima County yabhengeza iNyanga ka-Aprili yoHlaselo loHlaselo ngokwesondo. Emva kokusebenza namaxhoba obundlobongela basekhaya (DV) ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-45, siyayiqonda indlela kaninzi ngayo uhlaselo ngokwesondo kunye nokunyanzeliswa kwenzala zisetyenziswa njengendlela yokuqinisekisa amandla kunye nolawulo kubudlelwane obuxhaphazayo. Lo mthetho uya kunyanzela amaxhoba obundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo ukuba akhulelwe angafuni—uphinde uwahlube amandla phezu kwemizimba yawo. 

Njengazo zonke iintlobo zengcinezelo yenkqubo, lo mthetho uya kubonisa ingozi enkulu kubantu abasele bengabona basesichengeni. Izinga lokubhubha koomama abakhulelweyo abaNtsundu kweli lizwe liphantse libe liphindaphindeke kathathu elo labafazi abamhlophe. Ngaphezu koko, abafazi abaMnyama bafumana ukunyanzeliswa ngokwesondo ngokuphindwe kabini izinga labasetyhini abamhlophe.

"Oku kungafani kuya kwanda kuphela xa urhulumente evunyelwe ukunyanzelisa ukukhulelwa," kusho uAnna Harper, i-VP ye-Executive kunye neGosa eliyiNtloko leSicwangciso kwi-Emerge. "Ngenxa yokunqongophala koluntu olunikwayo kumatyala odlwengulo kunye nokulalana kunye nokudalwa komngcipheko ongakumbi kwiimeko ze-DV ngokubanzi, esi sigwebo sineziphumo ezifikelela kude."

Izigqibo zeNkundla ePhakamileyo azibonakalisi amazwi okanye iimfuno zoluntu lwethu. Ukusukela ngo-2022, bekukho umzamo wokufumana isilungiso kumgaqo-siseko wase-Arizona kuvoto. Ukuba ipasisiwe, iya kusichitha isigqibo seNkundla ePhakamileyo yase-Arizona kwaye iseke ilungelo elisisiseko lokuqhomfa e-Arizona. Ngazo naziphi na iindlela abakhetha ukwenza oko, sinethemba lokuba uluntu lwethu luya kuma kunye nabasindileyo kwaye lusebenzise ilizwi lethu elihlangeneyo ukukhusela amalungelo asisiseko.

Sikunye, sinokunceda ukubuyisela amandla kunye ne-arhente kumaxhoba afanele onke amathuba okufumana inkululeko kuxhatshazo.