Yedu basa rekugadzirisa rusaruro uye kupokana nekusviba kwevakapona vatema

Yakanyorwa naAna Harper-Guerrero

Emerge anga ari mukushanduka kweshanduko uye shanduko yemakore matanhatu apfuura ayo akatarisana zvakanyanya nekuve inorwisa-rusarura, sangano rine tsika dzakasiyana. Tiri kushanda mazuva ese kudzura anti-kusviba uye kusangana nerusarura mukuyedza kudzoka kuhunhu hunogara mukati medu tese. Tinoda kuve mucherechedzo werusununguko, rudo, tsitsi uye kupora - zvimwechetezvo zvinhu zvatinoda kune chero munhu anotambura munharaunda medu. Emerge ari parwendo rwekutaura chokwadi chisinga tsanangurike nezve basa redu uye nekuzvininipisa akapa zvidimbu zvakanyorwa nemavhidhiyo kubva kune vanobatsirana munharaunda mwedzi uno. Idzi ndidzo chokwadi chakakosha nezve izvo chaizvo zvakaitika kune vapenyu vari kuyedza kuwana rubatsiro. Tinotenda kuti muchokwadi ichocho ndiyo nzira yenzira yekumberi. 

Maitiro aya anononoka, uye mazuva ese kuchave nekukoka, kwechokwadi uye kwekufananidzira, kudzokera kune izvo zvisina kushandira nharaunda yedu, zvakatishandira isu sevanhu vanoumba Emerge, uye izvo zvisina kushandira vapenyu nenzira dzavano vakakodzera. Tiri kushanda kuisa pakati pehupenyu hwakakosha zviitiko zveVASI vapenyu. Tiri kutora basa rekukoka hurukuro dzakashinga nemamwe masangano asingabatsiri uye nekugovana rwendo rwedu rwakashata kuburikidza neiri basa kuti tikwanise kutsiva hurongwa hwakazvarwa kunze kwechishuwo chekuisa mumapoka nekuzvidza vanhu munharaunda medu. Iwo nhoroondo midzi yeiyo isiri-purofiti system haigone kufuratirwa 

Kana isu tikanhonga pane zvakataurwa naMichael Brasher mwedzi uno muchikamu chake nezve tsika yekubata chibharo uye kudyidzana kwevarume nevakomana, tinogona kuona kufanana kana tikasarudza. "Izvo zvakasarudzika, kazhinji zvisinganzverwi, tsika dzinowanikwa mumutsika kodhi kuti" munhu kumusoro "inzvimbo yenzvimbo umo varume vanodzidziswa kuti vadzike kubva uye vadzikise manzwiro, kukudza kumanikidza nekukunda, uye kuitirana utsinye kugona kudzokorora tsika idzi. ”

Zvakawanda semidzi yemuti unopa rutsigiro nekusimbisa, hwaro hwedu hwakamisikidzwa mutsika dzinofuratira chokwadi chechokwadi nezve mhirizhonga mudzimba nekusangana pabonde sekubuda kwerusaruraganda, uranda, classism, kuvengwa kwevanhukadzi, uye transphobia. Aya masisitimu ekudzvinyirira anotipa mvumo yekuzvidza zvinoitika zveVatema, Vezvizvarwa, uye Vanhu veRuvara - kusanganisira avo vanoziva munharaunda dzeLBBTQ - sevane kukosha kushoma pane kwakanyanya uye kusipo zvachose. Zvine njodzi kwatiri kuti tifunge kuti tsika idzi hadzisi kupinda mumakona akadzika ebasa redu uye dzinokanganisa pfungwa dzezuva nezuva nekubatana.

Isu takagadzirira kuzviisa panjodzi zvese. Uye nezvose zvatinoreva, taura chokwadi chese nezve mashandiro emhirizhonga mudzimba asina kuverengera ruzivo rwevakapona vese. Isu hatina kufunga nezve redu basa rekugadzirisa rusaruro uye kupesana nekusviba kwevakapona vatema. Isu tiri isingabatsiri system iyo yakagadzira yehunyanzvi munda kunze kwekutambudzika munharaunda medu nekuti ndiwo muenzaniso wakavakirwa isu kuti tishande mukati. Takatambura kuti tione kuti kumwe kudzvinyirira kumwe kunotungamira mukukanganisa kusingafungidzike, kunopedza hupenyu munharaunda ino kwakashandawo nenzira yekunyengera kupinda muchimiro chegadziriro yakagadzirirwa kupindura kune vakapona mumhirizhonga iyoyo. Mune mamiriro azvino, VAPONESI vese havagone kuti zvavanoda zviwanikwe mune ino sisitimu, uye vazhinji vedu isu vanoshanda muchirongwa vakaita nzira yekuzvidzivirira kubva kuzvinhu chaizvo zveavo vasingakwanise kushandirwa. Asi izvi zvinogona, uye zvinofanirwa, kuchinja. Isu tinofanirwa kushandura iyo system kuti hunhu hwakazara hweVASI vapenyu vaonekwe uye vakudzwe.

Kuti uve mukufungisisa nezvekuti ungachinje sei sechirongwa mukati memamiriro akaomarara, akasimba akasungwa zvinotora kushinga kukuru. Zvinoda kuti isu timire mumamiriro ezvinhu engozi uye nekuzvidavirira kukuvara kwatakakonzera. Izvo zvinodawo kuti isu tinyatso tarisa munzira yekumberi. Zvinoda kuti tirege kuramba takanyarara pamusoro pezvokwadi. Chokwadi chatinoziva tese chirimo. Kusarura hakusi kutsva. Vatema vakapona vanonzwa vadzikiswa uye vasingaonekwe hachisi chinhu chitsva. Huwandu hweVakashaiwa uye Vakapondwa Vakadzi veMadzinza havazi hutsva. Asi kukoshesa kwedu iko kutsva. 

Vakadzi Vatema vanokodzera kudiwa, kupembererwa, nekusimudzwa nekuda kwehungwaru, ruzivo, uye kubudirira kwavo. Tinofanirawo kubvuma kuti Vakadzi Vatema havana imwe sarudzo kunze kwekurarama munharaunda isina kumbofungidzirwa kuvabata sevakakosha. Tinofanira kuteerera mazwi avo pamusoro pekuti shanduko inorevei asi titore zvizere basa redu rekuona nekugadzirisa kusarongeka kunoitika zuva nezuva.

Vakadzi vechinyakare vanofanirwa kurarama vakasununguka uye vanoremekedzwa pane zvese izvo zvavakaruka mupasi ratinofamba - kusanganisira miviri yavo. Kuyedza kwedu kusunungura vagari vemo kubva mukushungurudzwa mudzimba kunofanirawo kusanganisira kwedu varidzi vezvakaitika zvinoshungurudza uye chokwadi chatinovanza nyore nyore nezvekuti ndiani akadyara mbeu iyoyo pamunda wavo. Kusanganisira muridzi wenzira dzatinoedza kudiridzira mbeu idzi mazuva ese senharaunda.

Izvo zvakanaka kutaura chokwadi nezvezviitiko izvi. Muchokwadi, zvakakosha kuti kupona pamwe kweVASI vapenyu munharaunda ino. Kana isu tichiisa pakati avo vanoteererwa kushoma, isu tinoona kuti nzvimbo yakavhurika kune wese munhu.

Tinogona kufungidzira uye nekushingairira kuvaka iyo ine kugona kukuru kuvaka chengetedzo uye kubata hunhu hwevanhu vese munharaunda medu. Tinogona kuve nzvimbo dzinogamuchirwa nemunhu wese mune kwavo kwakatwasuka, kwakazara, uye kune hupenyu hwemunhu wese, uko kuzvidavirira kunoonekwa serudo. Nharaunda umo isu tese tine mukana wekuvaka hupenyu husina mhirizhonga.

Iyo Queens iboka rekutsigira iro rakagadzirwa kuEmerge kuisa pakati zviitiko zveVatema Vakadzi pabasa redu. Yakagadzirwa uye inotungamirwa neVatema Vakadzi.

Vhiki rino tinodada nekutaura nemazwi akakosha uye zviitiko zveQueens, avo vakafamba nenzira yakatungamirwa naCecelia Jordan mukati memasvondo mana apfuura kukurudzira vasina kuchengetedzwa, mbishi, kutaura chokwadi senzira yekurapa. Ichi chidimbu ndicho chakasarudzwa neQueens kugovana nenharaunda mukuremekedza Mwedzi wekuzivisa nezvechisimba mudzimba.

Mhirizhonga KuVakadzi Vemuno

Yakanyorwa naApril Ignacio

Kubvumbi Ignacio mugari weTohono O'odham Nation uye muvambi weIndivisible Tohono, sangano remunharaunda rakadzika rinopa mikana yekudyidzana kwevanhu nedzidzo kupfuura kuvhota nhengo dzeTohono O'odham Nation. Ndiye mutsigiri anotyisa wevakadzi, amai kune vatanhatu uye muimbi.

Mhirizhonga kuvakadzi vemuMuno yakajairika zvekuti tinogara muchokwadi chisingataurwe, chinonyengera zvekuti miviri yedu haisi yedu. Kurangarira kwangu kwekutanga kweichi chokwadi kungangoita zera ramakore matatu kana mana, ndakaenda kuHeadStart Chirongwa mumusha unonzi Pisinemo. Ndinoyeuka ndichiudzwa “Usarega chero munhu achikutora” seyambiro kubva kuvadzidzisi vangu parwendo rwekumunda. Ndinoyeuka ndichitya kuti zvirokwazvo mumwe munhu aizoedza "kunditora" asi ini handina kunzwisisa kuti zvairevei. Ini ndaiziva kuti ndaifanirwa kunge ndiri mukuona ndiri kure nemudzidzisi wangu uye kuti ini, semwana ane makore matatu kana mana ekuberekwa ndakazoerekana ndaziva nezve kwandikomberedza. Ini ndave kuziva manje semunhu mukuru, kushungurudzika kwakapfuudzwa kwandiri, uye ini ndakanga ndakuendesa kuvana vangu chaivo. Mwanasikana wangu wedangwe nemwanakomana vese vanoyeuka kurairwa neni “Usarega chero munhu achikutora” sezvo ivo vaifamba kumwe kunhu vasina ini. 

 

Nhoroondo yechisimba kuvanhu vemuIndia muUnited States yakagadzira kujairika pakati pevazhinji vedzinza zvekuti pandakabvunzwa kuti ndipe nzwisiso yakakwana kune Vakashaikwa neVakaurayiwa veMadzimai neVasikana I.  takatambura kuwana mazwi ekutaura nezvehupenyu hwedu hwakagovaniswa izvo zvinogara zvichiratidzika kunge zviri mubvunzo. Kana ndati miviri yedu haisi yedu, Ndiri kutaura pamusoro peizvi mukati meyakaitika mamiriro. Hurumende yeUnited States yakatemera zvirongwa zvezvemuchadenga uye yakanangana nemaIndia venyika ino muzita re "budiriro". Kunyangwe kwaive kwekumanikidza kutamisa vanhu vemuIndia kubva kudzimba dzekumba kwavo kuenda kunzvimbo dzakachengetedzwa, kana kuba vana kubva kudzimba dzavo kuti vaiswe muzvikoro zvebhodhingi zvakatekeshera nenyika, kana kumanikidzwa kumanikidzwa kwevakadzi vedu muIndia Health Services kubva muna 1960 kusvika kuma80s. Vagari veko vakamanikidzwa kurarama muhupenyu hwenyaya hwakazara nemhirizhonga uye nguva zhinji zvinonzwa sekunge tiri kupopota kuita maturo. Nyaya dzedu hadzioneki kune vakawanda, mazwi edu anoramba asinganzwike.

 

Izvo zvakakosha kuti urangarire kuti kune mazana mashanu nemakumi mana nenomwe emarudzi emarudzi muUnited States uye rimwe nerimwe rakasarudzika. MuArizona moga mune makumi maviri nemaviri madzinza akasarudzika, kusanganisira kuiswa kubva kune mamwe maNyika munyika yese inodaidza Arizona musha. Saka iko kuunganidzwa kwedata kweVakashaikwa uye Vakapondwa veMadzimai eVasikana neVasikana kwave kunetsa uye kuri padyo padyo nekutadza kuita. Tiri kunetsekana kuziva huwandu hwechokwadi hweVanhukadzi veVasikana nevasikana vakaurayiwa, vakashaikwa, kana kutorwa. Dambudziko rekufamba uku riri kutungamirwa neVanhu vechizvarwa, isu tiri nyanzvi dzedu pachedu.

 

Mune dzimwe nharaunda, vakadzi vari kuurawa nevanhu vasiri vemo. Munharaunda yangu yedzinza makumi mapfumbamwe muzana emhosva dzevakadzi vakapondwa, yaive mhedzisiro yemhirizhonga mudzimba uye izvi zvinoratidzwa mudare redzimhosva. Dzinosvika zvikamu makumi mapfumbamwe kubva muzana zvematare edzimhosva anonzwikwa mumatare edu eTribal imhosva dzemhirizhonga mudzimba. Yese nyaya yekudzidza inogona kusiyana zvichienderana nenzvimbo yenzvimbo, zvisinei izvi ndizvo zvazvinoita senzvimbo yangu. Zvakakosha kuti vagari venharaunda nevabatsiri vanzwisise Kushaiwa uye Kuurayiwa Kwevanhukadzi & Vasikana mugumisiro wakanangana nemhirizhonga yakaitirwa vakadzi nevasikana vemuNzvimbo. Midzi yemhirizhonga iyi yakadzika midzi mune zvechinyakare zvekutenda masisitimu ayo anodzidzisa zvinyengeri nezvekukosha kwemitumbi yedu - zvidzidzo zvinopa mvumo yekuti miviri yedu itorwe chero nemutengo chero chikonzero. 

 

Ini ndinowanzozviwana ndavhiringidzika nekushaikwa kwehurukuro yekuti hatisi kutaura nezvenzira dzokudzivirira mhirizhonga mudzimba asi asi isu tiri kutaura nezve nzira yekunaya nekuwana vasipo uye vakauraya vakadzi veVanhu nevasikana.  Chokwadi ndechekuti kune maitirwo maviri eruramisiro. Imwe inobvumidza murume anga achipomerwa kubatwa chibharo, kushungurudzwa pabonde, nekushungurudzwa pabonde, kusanganisira kutsvodana kusingabvumirane uye kutsvanzvadzira kwevakadzi vanosvika makumi maviri nematanhatu kubva kuma26 kuve Mutungamiriri wechi1970 weUnited States. Sisitimu iyi inoenderana neiyo yaizomisa zviremero mukuremekedza varume vaibata chibharo vakadzi vavanga vashandira. Uyezve kune iyo yekuronga system kwatiri; uko mhirizhonga pamiviri yedu nekutora miviri yedu kuri kuitika munguva pfupi uye nekuvhenekera. Ndinotenda, ndiri.  

 

MunaNovember wegore rapfuura manejimendi eTrump akasaina Executive Order 13898, achiumba iyo Task Force paVanoshaya uye Vakaurawa veAmerican Indian neAlaskan Natives, inozivikanwawo se "Operation Lady Justice", iyo yaizopa mukana wakakura wekuvhura mamwe makesi (asina kugadziriswa uye anotonhora kesi ) yeVakadzi veMunharaunda vanotungamira kugoverwa kwemamwe mari kubva kuDhipatimendi reJustice. Zvisinei, hapana mimwe mitemo kana mvumo inouya neOp Operation Lady Justice. Iwo marongero acho chinyararire anotarisana nekushomeka kwekuita uye kukoshesa kugadzirisa mamiriro anotonhora muIndia Nyika pasina kubvuma kukuvara kukuru nekushungurudzika uko mhuri zhinji dzakatambura nako kwenguva yakareba. Isu tinofanirwa kugadzirisa nzira iyo marongero edu nekushaikwa kwekuisa pakutanga zviwanikwa zvinobvumidza kunyarara nekudzimwa kweVazhinji veVanhu veMadzimai neVasikana vakashaika uye vakapondwa.

 

Musi waGumiguru 10 Savanna Act uye Isingaonekwe Mutemo vese vakasainwa kuita mutemo. Iyo Savanna Act yaizogadzira zvimisikidzwa zvakaenzanirana zvekupindura kumatare ekushayikwa nekuurawa maNative America, mukubvunzana neVamarudzi, izvo zvinosanganisira kutungamira kwekudyidzana pakati penyika pakati pemadzinza, federal, nyika, uye nemitemo yemuno. Iyo Isingawoneke Mutemo yaizopa mikana kumadzinza kutsvaga nzira dzekudzivirira, rubatsiro nezvirongwa zvine chekuita nekushaikwa (kutorwa) uye kuurawa kweVanhu veko.

 

Kubva nhasi, mutemo we Violence Against Women Act hausati wapasiswa kuburikidza neSeneti. Iyo Violence Against Women Act ndiwo mutemo unopa amburera yemasevhisi uye dziviriro kuvakadzi vasina magwaro nemadzimai echikadzi. Ndiwo mutemo wakatibvumidza isu kutenda uye kufungidzira chimwe chinhu chakasiyana kumatunhu edu ari kunyura nekuzara kwemhirizhonga. 

 

Kugadzirisa aya mabhiri nemitemo uye maofficial ekuraira ibasa rakakosha rakaburitsa mwenje panhau hombe, asi ini ndichakamira padhuze nekubuda kwemagaraji akavharwa uye masitepisi. Ndichiri kunetseka pamusoro pevanasikana vangu vanofamba kuenda kuguta vari voga. Pakupikisa huremu hwemurume nemvumo munharaunda medu zvaitora kuita hurukuro neHigh School Nhabvu Kochi kubvuma kubvumidza timu yake yenhabvu kutora chikamu mukuyedza kwedu kugadzira kutaurirana munharaunda medu nezve kukanganisa kwemhirizhonga. Nharaunda dzemadzinza dzinogona kubudirira kana dzikapihwa mukana uye simba pamusoro pekuti vanozviona sei. Shure kwezvose, tichiri pano. 

Nezve Indivisible Tohono

Indivisible Tohono isangano remunharaunda rinopa mukana wekubatana kwevanhu uye dzidzo kupfuura kuvhota nhengo dzeTohono O'odham Nation.

Nzira Yakakosha yeKuchengeteka uye Ruramisiro

NaVarume Vachimisa Mhirizhonga

Sangano reEmerge Center Rinopesana nehutungamiriri hweKushungurudzwa Kwevanhukadzi mukuisa pakati zviitiko zvevakadzi vatema panguva yeMwedzi Yekuzivisa Mhirizhonga Mudzimba zvinotikurudzira paMurume Kumisa Mhirizhonga.

Cecelia Jordan's Ruramisiro Inotanga Kunoitika Kuti Mhirizhonga KuVakadzi Vatema Inopera - mhinduro kuna Caroline Randall Williams ' Muviri wangu iConfederate Monument - inopa nzvimbo inotyisa yekutanga.

Kwemakore makumi matatu nemasere, Varume Vachimisa Mhirizhonga vakashanda vakanangana nevarume muAtlanta, Georgia uye munyika kuti vapedze mhirizhonga yevanhurume kuvanhukadzi. Chiitiko chedu chakatidzidzisa kuti hapana nzira inoenda kumberi pasina kuteerera, kutaura chokwadi uye kuzvidavirira.

Muchirongwa cheBatterer Intervention Program (BIP) tinoda kuti mazita evarume aine ruzivo rwakadzama maitiro ekudzora nekushusha avakashandisa uye mhedzisiro yemaitiro avo kune vavakaroorana navo, vana nenzanga. Hatiite izvi kunyadzisa varume. Asi, tinokumbira varume kuti vatarise zvisina kutsarukana pachavo kuti vadzidze nzira nyowani dzekuve munyika nekugadzira nharaunda dzakachengeteka kune vese. Isu takadzidza kuti - zvevarume - kuzvidavirira uye shanduko pakupedzisira zvinotungamira kune humwe hupenyu hunogutsa. Sezvatinotaura mukirasi, haugone kuchichinja kusvikira wachitumidza zita.

Isu tinokoshesa zvakare kuteerera mumakirasi edu. Varume vanodzidza kunzwa manzwi evakadzi nekufungisisa pazvinyorwa zvakaita sebhero hoko ' Kuda Kuchinja uye mavhidhiyo saAisha Simmons ' AIHWA! Rape Runyorwa. Varume dzidzirai kuteerera musina kupindura pavanenge vachipana mhinduro Hatidi kuti varume vabvumirane nezviri kutaurwa. Pane kudaro, varume vanodzidza kuteerera kuti vanzwisise zviri kutaurwa nemumwe munhu uye kuratidza rukudzo.

Pasina kuteerera, tichakwanisa sei kunyatsonzwisisa mhedzisiro yezviito zvedu pane vamwe? Isu tinodzidza sei maitiro ekuenderera munzira dzinokoshesa kuchengetedzeka, ruramisiro, uye kupora?

Aya mabumbiro akafanana ekuteerera, kutaura chokwadi uye kuzvidavirira anoshanda munharaunda uye munharaunda. Izvo zvinoshanda pakupedza systemic rusaruraganda uye kupesana nekusviba sezvazvinoita pakupedza mhirizhonga mudzimba uye pabonde. Nyaya dzakapindirana.

In Ruramisiro Inotanga Kunoitika Kuti Mhirizhonga KuVakadzi Vatema Inopera, Muzvare Jordan vanobatanidza madhivi pakati pechisarura nemhirizhonga mudzimba uye pabonde.

Amai Jordan vanotipikisa kuti tizive nekuchera "zvisaririra zveuranda nekoloni" zvinokanganisa pfungwa dzedu, zviito zvezuva nezuva, hukama, mhuri, uye masisitimu. Idzi dzidziso dzekolonial - idzi "confederate monuments" dzinosimbisa kuti vamwe vanhu vane mvumo yekudzora vamwe uye kutora miviri yavo, zviwanikwa, uye kunyangwe kurarama pamadiro - ndiwo musimboti wemhirizhonga kuvakadzi, hukuru hwevachena, uye kupesana nekusviba. 

Kuongorora kwaMai Jordan kunoenderana nemakore makumi matatu nemasere ekuziva tichishanda nevarume. Mumakirasi edu, hatidzidze mvumo yekuteerera kubva kumadzimai nevana. Uye, mumakirasi edu, avo vedu vachena vasina kudzidza vanokodzera kutarisisa, kushanda, uye kuzviisa pasi pevanhu vatema nevanhu vane ruvara. Varume nevarungu vanodzidza kodzero iyi kubva munharaunda nemagariro akaitwa asingaonekwe nemasangano anoshanda mune zvido zvevachena varume.

Mme Jordan vanotaura zvinokanganisa, zvemazuva ano zvinokonzeresa zvekusangana pabonde uye rusaruraganda pavakadzi vatema. Anobatanidza uranda nekutyisa kwevakadzi vatema kusangana nehukama pakati pevanhu nhasi, uye anoratidza kuti anti-Dema inopinza sei masisitimu edu, kusanganisira nemutemo mhosva, munzira dzinokanganisa nekuisa pangozi vakadzi vatema.

Idzi ichokwadi chakaoma kune vazhinji vedu. Hatidi kutenda zviri kutaurwa naMuzvare Jordan. Muchokwadi, isu takadzidziswa uye kushamwaridzana kuti tisamuteerere iye nemamwe mazwi evakadzi veVatema. Asi, munzanga umo hukuru hwevachena uye anti-Blackness vanokanganisa mazwi evakadzi vatema, tinofanirwa kuteerera. Mukuteerera, tinotarisa kuti tidzidze nzira inoenda kumberi.

Sekunyorera kwaAmai Jordan, “Tichaziva kuti ruramisiro inoita sei kana tichiziva kuda vanhu vatema, uye kunyanya vakadzi vatema… Fungidzira nyika apo vakadzi vatema vanopora nekugadzira nzira dzechokwadi dzekutsigira nekuzvidavirira. Fungidzira masangano akaumbwa nevanhu vanovimbisa kuve vanobatana mukurwira rusununguko rwevatema uye kururamisira, uye vanozvipira kunzwisisa hwaro hwakadzikira hwezvematongerwo enyika. Fungidzira, kwenguva yekutanga munhoroondo, isu tinokokwa kupedzisa Kuvakazve. ”

Sezvazvakaita mumakirasi edu eBIP nevarume, tichifunga nezvenhoroondo yenyika yedu yekukuvadza vakadzi vatema ndiyo inotungamira yekuchinja. Kuteerera, kutaura chokwadi uye kuzvidavirira ndizvo zvinotarisirwa kutanga kururamisiro uye kupora, kutanga kune avo vakanyanya kukuvadzwa uyezve, pakupedzisira, kwedu tese.

Hatigone kuchichinja kusvikira tachidana zita.

Kubata Chinyakare uye Kushungurudzwa Kwemumba

Yakanyorwa chidimbu neVakomana kune Varume

              Ipo paine gakava rakawanda pamusoro pezviitiko zvehondo zvevagari vemo, mudetembi weNashville Caroline Williams nguva pfupi yadarika akatiyeuchidza nezvedanda rinowanzo kufuratirwa mune ino nyaya: kubata chibharo, uye tsika yekubata chibharo. Mune OpEd yakanzi, "Iwe Unoda Confederate Monument? Muviri wangu iConfederate Monument, ”Anofunga nezvenhoroondo yaive seri kwemumvuri weganda rake rakatsvukuruka. "Sezvo nhoroondo yemhuri yakagara ichitaura, uye sezvo kuongororwa kwazvino kweDNA kwandibvumidza kuti nditsigire, ini ndiri wedzinza remadzimai evatema vaive vashandi vepamba nevarume vachena vakabhinya rubatsiro rwavo." Muviri wake uye zvekunyora zvinoshanda pamwechete sekunangana kwechokwadi mhedzisiro yemagariro mirairo iyo US yakagara ichikoshesa, kunyanya kana zvasvika pamabasa echikadzi. Kunyangwe paine huwandu hwakasimba hwedhata iri kubuda iyo inosanganisa kusangana kwechinyakare kwevakadzi nevakomana kumatambudziko ehutano hwevanhu uye mhirizhonga, nhasi, kuyambuka America, vakomana vachiri kungowedzerwa pachikoro chekare-cheAmerica chirevo: "murume kumusoro."

               Kufumurwa kwaWilliam kwakakodzera uye kwakasununguka munhoroondo yemhuri yake kunotiyeuchidza kuti kuzviisa pasi pevakadzi nevakadzi nemadzinza zvakagara zvichifambirana. Kana isu tichida kutarisana kana, isu tinofanira kusangana nezvose zviri zviviri. Chikamu chekuita icho chiri kuziva kuti pane chaizvo zvakajairwa zvinhu nemaitiro zvinosvibisa hupenyu hwedu hwezuva nezuva nhasi muAmerica izvo zvinoramba zvichitsigira kubatwa chibharo. Izvi hazvisi nezvezvifananidzo, Williams anotiyeuchidza, asi nezve maitiro atinoda kuti tibatanidze pamwe chete nezviitiko zvekare zvekutonga zvinoruramisa nekugadzirisa mhirizhonga pabonde.

               Tora semuenzaniso, mutambo wekudanana, umo mukomana akarambwa anoenda kune hurefu hwehugamba kuti akunde kudiwa kwemusikana asingamufarire-kukunda kwake kuramba pakupedzisira neakanyanya kudanana chiratidzo. Kana nzira idzo vakomana vanosimudzwa kuti vaite bonde, chero zvodii Chokwadi, hunhu hwatinowanzoisa mukati mevakomana vadiki mazuva ese, hwakabatana nepfungwa dzakareba nezve "varume chaivo," ndiyo hwaro husingadzivisike hwetsika yekubata chibharo.

               Izvo zvakasarudzika, kazhinji zvisinganzverwe, tsika dzakakumikidzwa mutsika yekodhi kuti "murume kumusoro" inzvimbo yenzvimbo umo varume vanodzidziswa kubvisa kubva uye kudzikisira manzwiro, kukudza kumanikidza uye kukunda, uye kubata zvine utsinye kugona kweumwe neumwe. kudzokorora tsika idzi. Kutsiva hunyanzvi hwangu kuzviitiko zvevamwe (uye nezvangu) nemvumo yekukunda uye kuwana yangu ndiyo nzira yandakadzidza nayo kuva murume. Maitiro akajairwa ekutonga anobatanidza nyaya iyo Williams anotaurira kutsika idzo dziripo nhasi apo mukomana ane makore matatu ekuberekwa anonyadziswa nemunhu mukuru waanoda kuchema paanonzwa kurwadziwa, kutya, kana tsitsi: “vakomana havacheme ”(Vakomana rasai kunzwa).

              Nekudaro, kufamba kwekupedzisa kukudzwa kwekutonga kuri kukura, zvakare. MuTucson, pavhiki rakapihwa, munzvimbo dzinosvika gumi nenomwe dzezvikoro uye paJuvenile Detention Center, vangangoita makumi matanhatu vakadzidziswa, varume vakuru vanobva kumatunhu ese vanogara pasi kuti vatore chikamu mumapoka ekutaura pamwe nevakomana vanenge mazana maviri vachiri kuyaruka sechikamu chebasa reVakomana. Varume Tucson. Kune vazhinji vevakomana ava, ino ndiyo chete nzvimbo muhupenyu hwavo umo zvakachengeteka kurega kwavo kurinda, kutaura chokwadi nezve manzwiro avari kuita, uye kukumbira rutsigiro. Asi idzi mhando dzezvirongwa zvinofanirwa kuwana zvakanyanya kuteedzera kubva kumatunhu ese enharaunda yedu kana tichizotsiva tsika yekubata chibharo netsika yemvumo inosimudzira kuchengetedzwa neruramisiro kune vese. Tinoda rubatsiro rwako kuwedzera basa iri.

            Musi waGumiguru 25, 26, na28, Boys to Men Tucson iri kubatana neEmerge, iyo University yeArizona pamwe nemubatanidzwa wemapoka enharaunda akazvipira kuitisa musangano wekuparadza wakanangana nekuronga nharaunda dzedu kugadzira dzimwe nzira dziri nani dzevakomana vechidiki nevarume- kuzivikanwa kwevechidiki. Ichi chiitiko chinofambidzana chinotora kudzika kwakadzika mumasimba anogadzira hunhu uye kugadzikana kwepamoyo kune vechidiki muTucson. Ino inzvimbo yakakosha uko izwi rako nerutsigiro rwako zvinogona kutibatsira kuita musiyano wakakura mumhando yetsika iripo yechizvarwa chinotevera kana zvasvika kune murume nemukadzi, kuenzana, uye kururamisira. Tinokukoka iwe ujoinane nesu kune ino nhanho inoshanda kurima nharaunda mune chengetedzo neruramisiro zvakajairika, pane kusarudzika. Kuti uwane rumwe ruzivo pane foramu, kana kunyoresa kuti upinde, ndapota shanya www.btmtucson.com/masculinityforum2020.

              Uyu unongova mumwe muenzaniso wesangano hombe-rekukudziridza kudzvinyirira kwerudo kune zvakajairika tsika dzekutonga. Angela Davis, muridzi wezvinhu, akataura nezvekuchinja uku zvakanyanya paakashandura munyengetero werunyararo mumusoro wake, achisimbisa achiti, "Ini handichabvuma zvinhu zvandisingakwanise kuchinja. Ndiri kuchinja zvinhu zvandisingagone kugamuchira. ” Apo patinofunga nezve kukanganiswa kwemhirizhonga mudzimba uye pabonde munharaunda medu mwedzi uno, dai isu tese takashinga uye takatsunga kumutevera.

About Vakomana Kune Varume

MASHOKO

Chiono chedu ndechekusimbisa nharaunda nekushevedza varume kuti vakwire kudzidzisa vakomana vechidiki parwendo rwavo rwekuva murume ane hutano.

MISSION

Basa redu ndere kutora, kudzidzisa, nekupa simba nharaunda dzevarume kuti vadzidzise vakomana vachiri kuyaruka kuburikidza nepamhepo saiti, kushanya kwekushanya, uye tsika dzazvino dzekufamba.

Mhinduro yekupindura kubva kuna Tony Porter, CEO, Kudana kune Varume

MuCecelia Jordan Ruramisiro Inotanga Kunoitika Kuti Mhirizhonga KuVakadzi Vatema Inopera, anopa ichi chokwadi chine simba:

"Kuchengetedza chinhu chisingasvikike cheganda Dema."

Handina muhupenyu hwangu handina kumbonzwa mazwi iwayo kuve echokwadi. Tiri muhondo dzekurwira mweya wenyika ino. Isu takanamatira mukusunda-kukwezva kwenzanga yakanangana nemadhimoni ayo akasviba uye zvishuwo zvayo zvepamusoro. Uye nhaka yechisimba yakanangana nevanhu vangu - vanhu vatema, uye kunyanya vakadzi vatema - yatiodza moyo pane zvatiri kuona uye kusangana nhasi. Tave chiveve. Asi isu hatisi kusiya hunhu hwedu.

Pandakavamba Kufona KuVarume makore angangoita makumi maviri apfuura, ndakave nechiratidzo chekugadzirisa kudzvinyirira kwepakati pamidzi yayo. Kubvisa zvebonde uye rusaruraganda. Kutarisa kune avo vari kumahombekombe kumahombekombe kuti vataure zvavakararama uye nekutsanangura mhinduro dzinoshanda muhupenyu hwavo. Kwemakumi emakore, Kudanwa kune Varume kwaunganidza mazana ezviuru evarume-vanozivikanwa vanoshuvira vabatsiri kuvakadzi nevasikana. Isu takavadaidza kuti vapinde mubasa iri, tichivabata kuti vazvidavirire, nekuvadzidzisa nekuvapa simba rekuti vataure vachipesana nekutora matanho ekudzivirira mhirizhonga inoitwa nevanhukadzi uye rusarura. Uye isu tinogona kuita zvakafanana kune avo vanoda kuve vanoshuvira vabatsiri kune vanhu vatema nevamwe vanhu vane ruvara. Iwe unoona, haugone kuve anti-sexist pasina zvakare kuve anti-rusaruro.

Jordan akapedzisa mhinduro yake nekudaidzira kuti zviitwe: "Kukurukurirana kwese nemukadzi mutema kunounza chero mukana wekugadzirisa mhirizhonga mudzimba nehuranda, nekuyananisira kukuvadzwa kwesystem, kana sarudzo yekuramba uchitevedzera tsika dzevanhu dzine chisimba."

Ini ndinokudzwa kushanda pamwe nesangano rakadai seEmerge iro rakagadzirira kukumbira hunhu hweavo vari kudzvanyirirwa, kunyanya vakadzi vatema. Iko kuda kubuda kumberi uye kutsigira yavo nyaya uye zviitiko vasina kusanganisa kana kugadzirisa kune kwavo-kugadzikana. Nekupa hutungamiriri kuvazhinji vanopa rubatsiro rwevashandi, kubvuma zvisina tsarukano, uye kutsvaga mhinduro chaidzo dzekugumisa kudzvinyirirwa kweVatema vakadzi mukutumirwa kwemasevhisi.

Basa rangu, semunhu mutema uye semutungamiri wezvemagariro evanhu, kushandisa chikuva changu kusimudzira nyaya idzi. Kusimudza mazwi evakadzi vatema nevamwe vanotarisana nemhando dzakasiyana dzedzvinyiriro yeboka. Kutaura chokwadi changu. Kugovera hupenyu hwangu hwehupenyu-kunyangwe hazvo hungava hunoshungurudza uye hwakanyanya kuve hwekubatsira kwekuwedzera kweVhite kunzwisisa kwevanhu. Zvakadaro, ndakazvipira kushandisa pesvedzero yandinayo kutsvaga nyika ine ruramisiro uye yakaenzana.

Ini wechipiri kufona kwaJoridhani uye ndinoedza kusangana kusangana kwese nechinangwa chakakodzera Ndinokukumbirisa kuti ubatane neni mukuita zvakafanana. Tinogona kugadzira nyika apo vese varume nevakomana vane rudo uye vanoremekedza uye vese vakadzi, vasikana, uye avo vari kumahombekombe kwemahombekombe vanokosheswa uye vakachengeteka.

Nezve Kushevedzwa Kune Varume

Kudana kuvarume, kunoshanda kuita kuti varume vatore matanho ekurwisa kushungurudzwa mudzimba kuburikidza nekukura kwevanhu, kuzvidavirira uye nekubatana munharaunda. Kubva 2015 tanga tichidada nekudyidzana naTony Porter, CEO weA Kudana kuvarume mubasa redu kuve anti-rusarura, sangano rine tsika dzakasiyana. Tinotenda Tony nevashandi vazhinji paKudaidzira Varume vakapa rutsigiro, nhungamiro, kudyidzana uye rudo kusangano redu nenharaunda yedu mumakore apfuura.